Thursday, December 31, 2009

A Charming Book for Preschoolers


Do you remember the "Care Bears?" They were adorable little bears on Television. The illustrations were by Elena Kucharik. She is extremely talented and knows how to bring joy and happiness through her art. Her latest project is, "The One Year Devotions for Preschoolers 2." Elena has done the illustrations. The accompanying text was written by Carla Barnhill. The combination is a charming book for children.

There are 365 entries. One for each day of the year. It is a thick book with good quality pages. The colorful artwork made me smile again and again. Each entry includes a short verse (not exclusively KJV), simple devotion, and a heartwarming rhyme. Here is an example from August 6th:

"When someone is mean, I pray that I'll find
Love in my heart and strength to be kind."

You could easily entertain a small child by just looking at the pictures. They are endearing, precious and heartwarming. There are 365 different illustrations and they are all delightful.

*I received this book for free, from Tyndale House, for the purpose of sharing my opinion.*

Wednesday, December 30, 2009

The Shocks of Motherhood

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For the past few days, I have been getting paler and paler. I started to indulge in resting. I was not feeling well. I finally snapped out of it this morning and did my exercises. Then I put on my apron, listened to some music and cleaned. Miracle of miracles, I am feeling so much better!

Nicole (20) started telling me all kinds of stories. I call them "worldly stories." I actually joke with her about how "these are the kinds of things one only hears inside a police station."

But after awhile, I started to get chest pains. I turned on some gospel music. She sat and waited. I smiled. I tell her I worry about having a heart attack. I am so grateful she tells me things. I am grateful that she loves me and wants to share her life with me. I am so happy to have her around and she makes me laugh so much. She is a lot of fun. But seriously, I do get very sensitive when I hear about the "cares of this world" and all its debauchery.

We have these high expectations for our children. We want them to make us proud. But we don't have enough patience to allow them to grow up. They need to learn their lessons. They need time to make their own mistakes. But what they need most of all, is someone to guide them. Someone who will always be there whether they succeed or fail. They need a Mother who loves them enough to get through the chest pains.

Last week Nicole went to church with me. She sat next to me in service and I was so happy to have her there. She kept wanting to go outside for "just a second" to have a cigarette. But she waited and waited to make me happy. Finally, she went out once but came back very quickly. She had her cell phone in her hand. I don't know if we can ever get her to stop texting, but at least she did it discreetly.

A few days later, she even mentioned that she wanted to go to church again. She even talked to her boyfriend about going to church with him. There is just something soothing to the soul about attending services. I felt blessed. It is worth the chest pains.

Matthew (17) my beloved son (in whom I am well pleased) - smiles- is just adorable. He was trying to describe the difference between a "rap artist," a "songwriter" and what he is - a "lyricist." He has long talks with me about religion. He takes the time to calm my nerves and help bring peace in our family. There are so many things he has gone through that he will not tell me. He protects me. Yet I am still shocked by some of the music he likes. "Please turn that down." I say, holding my heart. Some of it frightens me. He smiles... and he listens. I am grateful.

Do you remember when the children were little? Their innocence was precious! They were safe and loved at home. We enjoyed them so much! Yet, when they grow up and start to "frighten" us with their goals and actions, we tend to forget about the coming shocks we should be expecting.

The chest pains will all melt away... one day... they will be replaced with tears and sorrow... while the work is being done.... until finally, we reap the harvest of godly children who have grown into precious mature adults. May it be so. . and God grant us the patience and grace to enjoy the process with humor and laughter.

Blessings
Mrs. White

Tuesday, December 29, 2009

Supper is Ready!

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Gather the family around the kitchen table. Hear them shout for joy! Everyone is smiling and happy. They are so hungry and can't wait to eat.

We sit around the table all together and listen to the chatter and the arguments. This is what family is all about!

There is bread and milk and vegetables. There is pasta and meat. Some help themselves to seconds. Others eat only a little, but linger at the table just to enjoy the family.

The greatest part of all is when the children clean up the dishes so Mom and Dad can rest!

Supper time is the most cherished childhood memory of all.


Blessings
Mrs. White

Wintry Vermont

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It is bitterly cold outside today. I had to drive Nicole (20) to work in the late morning. The roads are slippery and the wind is blowing. But it is still very pretty outside!

I had a nice cup of hot chocolate. I am trying to come up with an idea for supper. I will have to go back out in a little bit and stop at the store.

The children have been reading and playing quietly all day. I am starting to feel better and getting my energy back.

Amy (14) has had to drop out of her dance classes (ballet, tap, etc). She is very disappointed. But we are doing everything we can to find a way to replace our lost income so she can get back to school.

This morning, I finished reading "These Happy Golden Years" by Laura Ingalls Wilder. I want to read the next book in the series and will start on it later. It is so peaceful and calming to read about her memories!

We are in the habit of doing our schoolwork in the afternoons, or early evenings. We will do this later, before the evening meal. It is pleasant to be at home.

Blessings
Mrs. White

The Rose Legacy Review



The Rose Legacy is a long and drawn out book, packed with inconsequential details. The main character, Carina, is a feminist who chooses to make a life on her own. She makes mistakes and ends up in a terrible town out West. The book is historical fiction, set in the late 1800’s. The Author, Kristen Heitzmann, does a wonderful job describing life in a mining town. There are many characters to contend with. The area does not seem conducive to family life. It makes you realize what many went through, trying to obtain riches. The story itself is certainly well written, and interesting. There are two mysterious men in the book. One seems to be kind to Carina. The other has caused serious loss. I did love the fact that Carina was Italian and used Italian phrases throughout the book. However, I was often confused by her memories and mentions of “Flavio.” Some of the text was too “real” for me. I really don’t need descriptions of a man’s mustache or what happens with chewing tobacco.

*I received this book, for free, from Bethany House Publishers, for the purpose of sharing my opinion.*

Monday, December 28, 2009

The Breakfast Hostess

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From a very young age, I had my girls doing housework. They were such sweet helpers!

When Nicole (now 20) was 10 years old, she was in charge of the morning work. This was because she was an early riser. This sweetie, used to get up at the crack of dawn, sit at the kitchen table, and do all her homeschool assignments before anyone even woke up!

Her title was: The Breakfast Hostess.

Here is what she had to do:

While we were still sleeping, she would set the table, pour drinks and prepare breakfast. It could be as simple as cereal and juice (most often) or as complicated as a Pillsbury Quick bread (the only thing she could bake at the time). Once we were all called to the table, she, as our breakfast hostess, had to wait on all of us. Did we want seconds? She was to serve us. Did we need a spoon? She would get it. It was like she was a pleasant waitress who took care of us. Her job was to make sure we were all happy and enjoyed our breakfast.

Her manners were impeccable. Do you have any idea what it was like to wake up and find your smiling daughter, standing by the table asking you if you were ready for your tea?

The final portion of her job was to clean the kitchen. She had to clear the table, wash the dishes, and sweep the floor. Then she was off duty for the rest of the day. Rachel (my oldest) was the Lunch Hostess. (smiles)

Now that both of these girls have grown up, I only have one daughter left to help me with the kitchen. Tonight, Amy (14) was our dinner hostess. She cooked the entire evening meal, served us at the table and then cleaned up the mess. Such a dear child. I am very grateful!



Blessings
Mrs. White

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General Mills has an announcement and a special offer. I have quoted them below:

"We´re excited to share some great news for cereal lovers. This week General Mills announced a commitment to further reduce sugar in cereals advertised to kids under 12 to single digit grams of sugar per serving. The company has already been reducing sugar in cereals while increasing key nutrients, such as calcium and vitamin D, and providing whole grain.


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* Ready-to-eat cereal is the No. 1 source of whole grains in a child´s diet today.

* More frequent cereal eaters tend to have healthier body weights and lower Body Mass Index measures.

Studies also demonstrate the benefits of eating breakfast. A 1998 study showed that children who eat breakfast tend to perform better at school. Compared to children who skip breakfast, children who eat breakfast score higher on tests, are less likely to miss class or be tardy, have fewer reported discipline problems, and make fewer trips to the office.

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Cheerful at Home

Warm Hearts




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I looked outside my window and noticed it was snowing. I am so excited. I never get tired of the child-like excitement of seeing snow! I realize I live in Vermont and I have been in New England my entire life, but still, it is such a sight to see!

I have been worn out the past few days and in pain, so Amy (14) has been doing all my housework. I just looked in my kitchen and realized I have a lot of catching up to do. "Someone" just doesn't love the kitchen as much as Mama does! (smiles) But I will make it shine!

When I am sick or in pain, if I just get up and do a little bit of housework and try to be active, I get better much more quickly.

I am so excited about this coming day. Call me crazy, but I am going to vacuum and sweep and light candles and just be happy.

The other day, Mr. White was watching TV in our bedroom. When he went outside for a bit, I headed in there and made our bed, opened the shades, polished the bureau and took out the laundry. The room looked so much nicer. When he came in, I was resting comfortably with a book. I noticed him glancing around the room. He didn't say a word, but I knew he was grateful for my presence.

I am reading "These Happy Golden Years" by Laura Ingalls Wilder. I have read the book several times and always enjoy it. But I haven't read it recently. One of my TOS Crew friends mentioned it because it has some great teaching ideas in there, from the 1800's. But the story itself makes one love and appreciate home so much more! I am going to finish reading it today, during my "homemaking breaks."

I am really looking forward to 2010. I plan to buy a new oven and will be able to bake bread and cookies again. I cannot wait! I will also buy a digital camera so I can actually take pictures.

Hope you are having a wonderful day at home!

Blessings
Mrs. White

Saturday, December 26, 2009

A Mother's Legacy

Once Upon a Winters Night



What is going on in this dear old house? It looks like a happy place to be. I imagine children inside, with bright eyes and rosy cheeks. I am sure it is supper time. The family is probably gathered around the table, smiling and chatting.

A house with small children is the sweetest place on earth. Their antics and ideas can entertain the entire family. They are precious and delightful.

It is so much easier to remain at home and enjoy home, when there are small children around to care for.

In this picture, twilight has now come. Supper is finished. All are sleepy and cozy and off to bed. Mama probably tucked those children into warm beds and then sat nearby and read them a godly story to help teach them about morals and good character. I am sure the children were eager to listen, but then nodded off to sleep.

I know many Mothers are tired. They sacrifice so much to keep the home going. I pray they have the strength to keep at it with a cheerful spirit. I pray they are getting plenty of rest and are not overly busy with other projects.

Family, hearth and home are some of the most precious words of all. It is enough, dear ones, to be focused almost entirely on making a home. This is where the greatest legacy can reach generations of our descendants. May you not be weary in well doing.

I can see many mothers with glistening tears in their eyes. They are so tired. They have walked sick babies in the night, ready to collapse. These mothers have cleaned up spill after spill from clumsy toddlers. They've done it all with a knowing, understanding smile for their loving families. God bless them!

I am so proud of you for dedicating your lives as mothers. I want you to smile and laugh and be happy today. Enjoy the art of keeping a home. Enjoy those dear children in your care. I Hope you have a wonderful day!

Blessings
Mrs. White

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Thursday, December 24, 2009

To Encourage the Downcast Housewife

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It is dark outside, but cozy and warm in our house. Everyone is home and they are quiet. I have had such a blessed day. I want to encourage all of you who are suffering right now.

One day last week, I took my selfish 'self' to the supermarket. I only had enough money to buy one item. I looked around a little and had tears in my eyes because I could not buy anything else. There were so many things I wanted - frozen pizza, cookies, crackers, fruit, juice. But I didn't have any money so I began to cry. I had to straighten myself up and hold my head up and get out of there.

I have enough. I am okay. But it was hard to go without those little extras, those treats that make life more pleasant.

Then a few nights went by and a package arrived. It was a food box from our church. (How did they know?) I was praising God and so grateful that He answers our prayers.

This morning was very hard. Because of the Christmas holiday, Mr. White was supposed to get his paycheck a day early. But it didn't arrive on time. It is Thursday and the banks were closing at 1 p.m. They would not re-open until Monday. So even if he did get his check later, we would have no money until Monday. That was not okay. We were running out of food.

(The other day, my son asked me if we had any hot chocolate. I smiled and laughed and tried to make him happy. I said, "only rich people have hot chocolate. But we have plenty of Lipton tea." We made a joke about it. It was a treat and we just didn't have the money for it.)

Everyday I have been sending someone to the post office, hoping and praying there would miraculously be a check from somewhere so we could buy some extra food. But nothing came. I kept praying and trusting God. I knew he would provide, somehow.

This morning, Mr. White had fallen asleep. He was exhausted and in pain. He was not able to get his paycheck. Well, I had to take one of the children to an eye appointment. I had $10 to put in the gas tank and $8 to buy milk and bread. I got home and realized I was going to have to take some of our mortgage money out of the bank to buy groceries to get by until Monday. But just one last time, I asked my son to check the mail. He came back with a stack of things. In that pile, was a little card with a return address, but no name. I opened up the card and there was money inside. The note simply said, "Blessings from a friend." Tears welled up in my eyes. I gathered the children around and thanked God!!!!!

We went grocery shopping. I was smiling, content and happy as I selected our food. I bought milk and meat and bread. I bought cheese and ingredients to make a couple of our favorite suppers. I even bought some hot chocolate. I cannot tell you how grateful I am for that person, whoever it was that has blessed us so very much. I cannot thank you enough, but I pray that God gives you back "ten-fold."

Tonight, there is food in our house and we are greatly blessed. Things are getting better. Our crisis is only temporary and will improve in a couple of weeks.

I pray you are all doing well and have great faith in the miracles of our dear Lord.

Blessings
Mrs. White

No Room at the Inn - a Look at hunger and Homelessness

The Hungry Planet Bible Project has produced a media packet to bring awareness to the problem of hunger and homelessness. This packet includes the following:

1. A DVD - ROM.
I watched this video on my computer. Several people were interviewed. The video is very clear and makes you feel like you are right in the same room as the people on-screen. There are a variety of reasons people become homeless - it could be a job loss, medical expenses, drug or alcohol abuse and even domestic violence. It is sad to see families with children who have no place to call home. It is also devastating to think about their suffering from hunger.

2. Audio CD.
A reading of Luke chapter 1 - 2:20.

3. The DVD-ROM includes PDF files designed to show us how to help those in need.

Statistics show that, "In 2003, children under the age of 18 accounted for 39% of the homeless population; 42% of these children were under the age of five."

You will also find a list of ideas on "How to Help," and a list of instructions to help churches coordinate a food drive.

The resources in this packet have a Biblical basis, using James 1:27 at its core.

From the back of the Disk case:
"Each purchase of this product will prompt a donation to organizations and ministries that help those in need."

The Title, "No Room at the Inn," brings a sad realization that when Jesus was born, there was no place for him, other than a manger. It is devastating to think of so many who are homeless, hungry and suffering.

*I received this product, for free, from the publisher, for the purpose of sharing my opinion.*

Wednesday, December 23, 2009

The Home Arts

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I have a darling, old singer sewing machine. It sits in an antique cabinet. It is so pretty, and reminds me of something one would see in a museum. I remember sewing little dresses for my girls when they were 4 and 5 years old. I wanted to have those dresses finished quickly so I stayed up late into the night and worked on them. The fabric was black with pink roses all over it. I also made them matching hair ribbons, and everything was trimmed with white eyelet lace. I enjoyed sewing for my babies. It gave me such a warm feeling.

I have baked lots of bread over the years. My favorite is Italian. I used to make it with a big pot of homemade tortellini. Everyone loved this old fashioned, homemade supper. I enjoy mixing up dough and working with my hands to make food for my family. I love to serve it for them and see them smile. I love to hear how much they enjoy my cooking.

I have taught my children how to mend their clothes. Whenever they have a rip, I see them with my sewing box, fixing their own clothes and it makes me so proud.

My Mother taught me how to iron and do laundry. When I was a young girl, I was responsible for my own clothes. We had an enclosed porch on the side of our house, on the second floor. I could stand out there, near the dryer, and iron my skirts. We had lots of windows with a view of Boston Harbor. I loved watching the boats go by while I did my work.

These are just some of the many home arts. When we are working around the home, for our families, we are truly living a life that nourishes the soul. It is such a blessing to care for our loved ones.

May we all do it with a cheerful smile and a grateful heart.

Blessings
Mrs. White

Obstacles Welcome

 

Ralph de la Vega is President and CEO of AT & T Mobility and Consumer Markets. He came to America (alone), from Cuba, when he was 10 years old. In his book, Obstacles Welcome, he shares his story of hardship, motivation, hard work, sacrifice and education. His book is inspiring and will encourage and inform many people.

I love his focus on family and leadership. His skills and talents are exceptional. He teaches essential skills through personal examples, concrete ideas, and motivation. I love his writing style and was impressed with his overall message.

Whether you are an emerging leader, a homemaker, employee, or young person, there is plenty of helpful advice in this book to adapt to your own situation.

* I received this book, for free, from the publisher for the purpose of sharing my opinion.*

Academic Assessment Test- Review

TOS Crew Review

Product: Academic Assessment Tests- Explore and Plan

Publisher: ACT Advantage

Price: Explore ($22.95); Plan ($22.95)

*I received this product from this company (for free), for the purpose of sharing my opinion.*

ACT Advantage has created tests to help parents see how their children are doing academically. Each (timed) test consists of four subjects:

1. English

2. Math

3. Reading

4. Science

I had Matthew (17) take Explore, which is designed for students in grade 10. Amy (14) took Plan, designed for 8th graders. Neither child enjoyed this test. It was not fun. It annoyed them greatly. (smiles). As a matter of fact, I have been nagging both of them for several weeks to actually sit down and do them. I finally won the battle this week and am now able to write this review.

I was not surprised in the least bit when I saw their results. I know how they are doing academically because I have been their teacher since they were babies. I really don’t have a need for evaluating their progress. However, it is good for them to take practice tests. This will help them in the future.

The kind of families who would benefit from this resource are:

1. New homeschooling mothers who are unsure about how their children are doing. These teachers will be able to see weaknesses so they can plan a course of action for improvement.

2. Students who plan to take the SAT, GED and other tests. It is essential they have some testing practice.

You can find more information about Explore.

You can also find information about Plan.

To see reviews by fellow crew members:

http://www.homeschoolblogger.com/HomeschoolCrew/738900/

To find out more about my reviews, please visit "Introduction to our Homeschool Parlor"

A Housewife's Pink Mood

Vases of Pink Tulips and Blossom on Table Laid for Coffee








Early in the morning, as the sun is streaming through the curtains, I rise and walk towards the window. I see birds. I motion for them to come hither. They chirp a lovely melody and enter my room to help me dress for the day. The dear sparrows! I sing and hum through the house in my apron, looking angelic and peaceful.

This is a housewife's "pink mood." While I am in this mood, catastrophe hits my home. Children argue. Drama ensues... Everyone messes up the house simply by their presence. But I am as cheerful as ever. I am in my pink mood.

I hum and sing and gently tap children on their shoulders and ask for help. They smile and laugh because my mood is catching. Everyone gives up their trials and starts to laugh with Mother.

There are rare occasions that I am angry (perish the thought)but this is how that works: I might raise my voice (shout?). This is so rare that the older children are startled. They hug me and say, "Mother, what is wrong? This is so unlike you." They make it better for me. They may even buy me M and M's to cheer me up. They love my pink mood and will do anything to help me get it back.

One day, I was sitting in a corner chair near the hearth. I was happily looking out the window at the front property. I was content and as peaceful as could be. Matthew (17) and Nicole (20) came over and stood nearby. They began to analyze the situation. I heard them mumbling to each other:

Matthew: "Look at her... Not a care in the world... she has no worries at all."

Nicole: "I wish I could be that happy!"

I just smiled at them. Then I got up and made some nice hot tea. I love my pink mood.

But do you know what? My house is never going to be completely clean. Yet I delight in polishing and scrubbing. I don't necessarily do this to get it all finished, but to enjoy the process of making a home.

My children are going to have their normal squabbles and my husband, at times, will be angry with me. This is a normal house, just like everyone else's. But what I wish for all of you, is to learn to get into a pink mood. It is like living with one foot on earth and one in Heaven. It is having peace that passeth all understanding. It is the most joyous place to be.

If you spend time in the presence of the Almighty and find your source of strength and happiness there, you will develop the sweetest heart for home and motherhood that you could ever imagine.

You may not always retain the pink mood, for our emotions fluctuate and cannot be trusted. We will also experience painful trials and tears, but our goal is to get back to pink as soon as we can. Tears are good for the soul, but smiles are even better.

May you all have a wonderful day!

Blessings
Mrs. White

Monday, December 21, 2009

Do You Love Your Kitchen?

Pink and Blue Kitchen and Breakfast Nook








I have fond memories of my mother and grandmother in the kitchen. The old housewives loved their special room. They cleaned and baked and cooked. This was the room where they created treats for guests. Food is very comforting. Mothers of the old days set up their kitchens in a way that showed their personal style.

There are many modern kitchens of today, which seem cold and sterile. They look like they belong in a showroom. Personally, I prefer the old kitchens. I love to see handmade curtains, painted cabinets and pretty decorations on the walls. If there is a space for worn out cookbooks - all the better!

Some of the mothers used to have little tv sets in their kitchens. They would watch a little program while they made the family dinner. Or there would be the sound of a record playing or radio program coming from the living room. Mother would hum along while she cheerily set the table, filled glasses with milk, and baked an apple pie.

The Kitchen must be a place where Mother wants to be. She should put special little touches here and there to make it her favorite room in the house. I have a tall stool in my kitchen. I can sit and chat with one of the children while I peel potatoes or roll out biscuit dough. My health is frail and I need to sit. But I love to be in my kitchen.

Our cabinets are painted a dark sage green. My counter is hunter green with ivy leaves. My curtain is burgundy and dark green with decorative fruit. I have pretty welcome plaques on my walls. There is a red blender on my counter. I have sage green canisters. My floor has rips in the linoleum but it is clean. (smiles). My kitchen is old but beloved.

I would love to hear about your kitchen. I would also enjoy hearing about how you work in the kitchen with your daughters.

Have a wonderful day making delicious food for your families!

blessings
Mrs. White

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Saturday, December 19, 2009

A Dangerous Mood for a Housewife

Winter nostalgia








I woke up very cold this morning. The wood stove has gone out. I am not depressed, but feeling unmotivated. This is a dangerous mood for a housewife. My family needs me to be cheerful and happy. They need to see me loving my daily tasks, because I do them for my children. I want their childhoods to be filled with good memories and their hearts must love home.

Dear God, help me to "wake up" from this sloth of the mind!!!!

I will put on my apron, have a hot cup of tea and just start my morning routine. The action will help bring the right thoughts. I cannot sit in a chair until I "feel" like doing my housework. (shudder). I must get up and begin making home our haven of rest. It has to be a place of joy and peace. May God protect me from my own mood!

I will offer myself a reward. . . Once I get everything clean and neat, I will watch a nice movie from the old days. I will think of horse-drawn carriages, Victorian homes, hospitality, and serving tea and cakes.

Perhaps, I will even set a pretty table at the noon hour and serve a simple meal. I will use paper place cards. I can use my neatest handwriting and carefully write out each name with a heart. I will then put one at each place setting. This always makes the family smile. I do it rarely, but it is such a treat.


May there be peace and joy in your homes today!

Blessings
Mrs. White

Friday, December 18, 2009

Mother's Tears

Special Moments








Whenever I get off-track as a Mother and homemaker, I listen this this precious song:

http://thelegacyofhome.blogspot.com/2009/11/my-mothers-faith-beautiful-song-by.html

Then I weep and weep and pray and I have my vision back.

blessings
Mrs. White

A Grumpy Husband

The Perfect Marriage, Loretta Young, David Niven, 1946








Yesterday I had 2 very grumpy people in my house. One of them was an adult (not me). This can disrupt the harmony and peace of the entire household. Believe me when I tell you, it was not pleasant.

My husband was very angry. He came home from work upset and just seemed to want to take it out on little, innocent me (smiles). But I have learned something over the years. I do not take it personally. When I sense his abrasive, unreasonable anger, I do what they did on the cartoon years ago... I "exit, stage right." (smiles). I literally find a little corner in the house to hide in, like a kicked puppy. It's not fun.

But last night was super hard for me. It was Chanukkah and we had presents to give to the children. I was supposed to light our Mennorah, get our story and Bible lesson ready and make sure the children were happy. How could I do that if I was almost in tears? I mean, I have an easier time dealing with grumpy children than I do with an angry husband. It seems to hurt far more than anything else that could go on in this house.

So this is what I did. . . I went off into John's room for awhile. It is one of the few quiet rooms in the house. I just tried to calm down. I tried not to be upset.... after a little while, I got my courage up and thought: "Just because other people are angry in this house, does not mean I am going to let them ruin our family's holiday!" So I got up, found John, smiled, turned on some nice music, and set up our table. John and I were happy. Slowly other people came into the room and joined in our fun. Everything was okay.

But I didn't talk to my husband and he didn't talk to me. We were not ignoring each other. Just keeping a distance. Later that night, he had to go out, so he came over and hugged me and told me he loved me very much. It was his way of saying he was sorry and adored me. All of a sudden everything was right with the world again.

Peace was restored in our home and I felt blessed and grateful to God.

We have to realize that when our men are out working in the world and are around the stresses of society and our culture, it is going to make them difficult, at times, to get along with. They do not have the peace and serenity of home. It is the wife's job to make home the haven for him to come home to. Even if he comes home upset, she must be the nurse or missionary and just let him heal. It doesn't mean she has to talk to him (smiles) or "take" the anger. But she is just there. He will heal from the calming, loving presence of home.

Hope you all have a wonderful day!!

Blessings
Mrs. White

Thursday, December 17, 2009

A Great Book Giveaway You’ll Love

I have to tell you… I am probably one of the most selective, hard to please readers when it comes to choosing quality Christian literature. I do not like mainstream, feel-good books. I want some serious meat and I want it to be easy to understand. With this in mind, I was delighted to read “40 Loaves – Breaking Bread with Our Father Each Day.” This book is more than just a devotional. It is a conversation and genuine explanation of some difficult questions. The author, C. D. Baker, who has a master’s degree in theological studies, writes on topics such as: Being Angry with God; Confusion about God’s Will; Dealing with Doubts; When God Seems Silent; and the Conscience. I was, quite literally, comforted and instructed by his wisdom. His enlightening answers are sincere, Biblically based and an enormous relief to read!

I have some great news. The publisher has provided me with an extra copy of this book for a giveaway. If you would like a chance to win, all you have to do is leave me a comment. Just make sure you include an email address so I can contact you. Entries will close on December 21st at midnight (Eastern Time). The winner will be chosen, at random, on Tuesday, December 22, 2009. [If I am unable to reach the winner within 2 days, an alternate winner will be selected.]

*This book was provided for review by the WaterBrook Multnomah Publishing Group.*

Edited update:  The winner was selected using random.org.

The winner is……… mommyx12.  Enjoy the book!! I will ship this out to you next week. Thank you to everyone for participating!

Focusing on the Blessings at Home

Typical Working Class Family Posing at Home








During tough financial times, we have to invent ways to make our money last. We also have to be more creative with finding happiness.

I remember some struggles we had growing up. There were times when we didn't have much food. My sister and I would beg our Mother to buy a pizza from our favorite restaurant. She couldn't afford it, but told us if we found some change and came up with enough, she would go buy the pizza. My sister and I would get so excited and race into our rooms to find every dime we could. We would roll coins, hand over any dollar bills we had, and then somehow, there was enough. Just this simple treat, of an occasional pizza, gave us happiness.

One year, Mom had to do back- to- school shopping for us. My sister had spent the entire summer babysitting. She managed to save a few hundred dollars. I remember getting all our clothes and being at the check out line. Mom didn't have enough money. My sister (God bless her!) handed over her savings to help my mother buy our clothes.

Yesterday, I noticed we were almost out of shampoo. Can you imagine not even having one extra dollar to buy basic necessities? Well, I just prayed about it. Somehow God would provide. Before the day was over, Amy (14) walked into the living room with a new bottle of shampoo. I was shocked. She told me Nana had bought it, didn't like the scent and gave it to us. What a blessing!

This morning, I scraped up every last dollar I could find to put some gas in my car. I am completely broke (smiles), but have all I need. Tomorrow is another payday and it will all go to bills. (Not debt - we have no debt other than a small home mortgage. These are basic bills like insurance, heat and our mortgage.) But we will rejoice in the daily blessings God is kind enough to bestow on us.

Right now I am comforting myself with two passages from Scripture:

1. Deuteronomy 15:11 "For the poor shall never cease out of the land..." (Why does this comfort me? Because it makes me entirely dependent on God alone to take care of me. It makes me trust him that much more, than if I had plenty of money.)

2. Psalm 37:25 "I have been young, and now am old; yet have I not seen the righteous forsaken, nor his seed begging bread." (God has always provided for us. All our needs are met. We are okay!)


I have been praying for ways to replace our lost income. Amy (14) and I have been discussing it quite a bit. I will let you know when a solution has been found. In the meantime, I am going to make pancakes for lunch with hot tea. We will have a peaceful day with lots of smiles and laughter.

Hope you all have a wonderful day! Everything will get better!

Blessings
Mrs. White

Wednesday, December 16, 2009

A Cozy Morning in Vermont

Wooded Winter Landscape, c.1899








It is cozy and warm in my living room. I am sitting near my wood stove and just love being here. The snow outside is absolutely beautiful. I am excited with my plans for today.

I am going to do my favorite thing in the world.... clean and polish and shine my house. I will also do some school work with the children. I need to pick out a new book to start reading today. I have several review copies I need to work on. Hopefully I have a nice Christian novel somewhere. I would like to get lost in another world for a little while. It is relaxing and fun!

I have had so many wonderful blessings this week. Even during our hard times, I wake up each morning, eager to see what miracles the Lord brings into our lives. I am praising God for each little joy. Yesterday, I was happy with some cake. The day before that, I was given coupons for $8 off my next grocery trip! Just little things to take delight in, and praise God for.

We also found out that we are getting a brand new refrigerator for free. Not only that, but Nana and Grandpa (who live with us) will also get a new fridge for free! These are such amazing miracles that bring tears of joy to my eyes.

God is good and greatly to be praised.

Hope you have a wonderful day and that many miracles are sent your way!

Blessings
Mrs. White

Efficient Teaching Ideas for Busy Homeschooling Mothers Part One

I am going to share a couple of ideas with you. These are things I have done for many years with my own children.

Part One

I will describe how I taught my children some of their reading and writing skills, using 1800’s curriculum – The McGuffey Readers. I will first offer the “assignment” and then the “explanation.”

McGuffey Readers:

Assignment

1. Read the lesson out loud.

2. Copy it (exactly) into a notebook.

3. Use the vocabulary words in a sentence.

Explanation

1. I started Rachel (my oldest) on the 1st Reader. (I did not begin using the McGuffey’s until she already knew how to read.) We would go over lesson one. She had to read each sentence perfectly. I would show her the commas, periods, question marks, etc. I expected her to “pause” at a comma and change the tone of her voice for questions or at the end of a sentence. I had to read the sentence for her and then have her repeat what I said. This is how she learned to read very clearly. This is excellent for “speech” training.

I was able to quickly correct her if she got any words wrong. I could also explain definitions. This helped build her vocabulary and comprehension.

If she got any words wrong, or did not read the sentence correctly, I would (cheerfully, patiently and lovingly) teach it to her again. She was not allowed to move on to the next sentence until she got it right. But I encouraged her and praised her as we went, to help keep her motivated.

[This took anywhere from 5 to 15 minutes (depending on the length of the lesson). I could work with her while nursing a baby, washing dishes, or sitting at the kitchen table sipping on tea. It happened at any time during the day or evening. There was no set time for reading to me.]

2. She had to copy the lesson into a notebook. I expected to see paragraph indentations, the use of margins, and a clear title and page number. I made sure she did not rush through this. She had to spell everything right (by looking at the lesson), use proper punctuation, etc. Her handwriting had to be very neat as well. This was how she learned to write and compose her own sentences. She was copying excellent literature and it was absorbing into her mind.

[She did this without my help, but I checked her work and corrected it when she finished. While she worked I may have been folding laundry, watching a movie or sitting on the couch resting.]

3. At the end of the lesson, there is a list of vocabulary words. I gave her a verbal spelling test. If she got any wrong, I would (neatly) write them down. She was expected to practice saying and writing them for the next day. She had to write those 10 or 20 times and say them as she wrote.

She also had to write sentences. She could only use one of the vocabulary words in each sentence. I told her to make them funny and interesting. I would not accept two word sentences (such as “Come back!”). I also wanted to be entertained. This helped her to be creative. She loved to see my reactions to what she came up with. (As she got older I had to make some rules, however. She was not allowed to write any swears or anything vulgar. –smiles)

We never, ever, ever went on to the next lesson until she did it perfectly. She had to read clearly, write neatly and spell all the words without looking. Once she mastered this, she was able to move on to the next lesson. There were times she had to do the same lesson every day for a week, but that was okay. She was learning and improving.

What subjects have we just covered with McGuffey? We have studied Speech; Reading; Vocabulary; Creative Writing; Penmanship; Spelling; and Grammar.

How long did it take? We managed to efficiently teach for only 15 to 30 minutes.

In Part Two I will explain how to teach your student to enjoy editing and proofreading. This will greatly help improve writing skills.

In Part Three I will explain how to develop fun writing ideas for your students. We will use nothing more than a notebook, pen and a dictionary.



In Part Four, I show you How to Teach Mental Math Skills.

Blessings,
Mrs. White

Review – Primal- A Quest for the Lost Soul of Christianity

Looking for some ideas to ignite your lagging faith? Well, Mark Batterson’s latest book, “Primal – A Quest for the Lost Soul of Christianity,” may be just what you need.

Mark’s purpose in writing was to share his own discovery. He felt like he had lost his original motivation. As a Pastor in Washington, DC he had become a “Paid Professional Christian.” He was going through the motions, but had lost his heart for God.

The book is full of illustrations (stories), quotes and ideas. I found many of them to be encouraging. He shares from his personal life and includes some great lessons from people like J. C. Penney and Stanley Tam.

I did have a few problems, however. There are passages I don’t agree with. The book is also coming from a mainstream, or contemporary, Christian perspective. I just felt he watered down Scripture and didn’t treat it with enough reverence or respect.

During my reading, I had moments of loving the book and also hating it. It has its good and bad points. Nevertheless, the book was well written and certainly needed. Our current society is having a moral and social collapse. This book may help people focus on what really matters and start living more for God, rather than themselves.

 

*I received this book for free, from the publisher, for the purpose of sharing my opinion.*

Tuesday, December 15, 2009

An Older Housewife

American Housewife Marjorie McWeeney Cleaning House and Watching Her Children








I am getting old. I have been cleaning my kitchen all morning. Something that took me 30 minutes years ago, now takes me hours. I have to take several breaks. I lit a nice apple/cinnamon candle. It is glowing on my neatly polished stove. I have hot water ready for a cup of tea. I am worn out. But I am content.

I still have to clean my living room. I know that will take me hours since I need so many breaks. But maybe I will just have Amy (14) do it. She is so young and energetic. It will only take her 10 minutes. What is wrong with me? Am I just old and feeble? (smiles) But I do enjoy cleaning so much and I will just take my time.

I went out early this morning, before the sun came up, to drive Nicole (20) to work. There is so much beautiful snow here and it glistens in the Vermont moonlight. This is an amazing place to live. But, I was so happy to get back home again.

My dear mother (Nana) is a housewife. She lives on the first floor of our house. She works all day long cleaning her home. She loves it as much as I do. But she is worn out too. I try to send Amy downstairs to help with housework, but Nana wants the joy of cleaning. She would rather do it herself, even if it takes all day.

There is great joy and peace to be found in the simple tasks of housewifery. A woman is in her place when she is the keeper of home. This is where her heart is most content and where she is most blessed. It is the ideal godly life for a wife and mother.

May you all have a precious day.

Blessings
Mrs. White

Monday, December 14, 2009

Maestro Classics The Tortoise and the Hare

TOS Crew Review

Product: “The Tortoise and the Hare” – Stories and Music on Audio CD

Publisher: Maestro Classics

Price: $16.98

*I received this product from this company (for free), for the purpose of sharing my opinion.*

We had our two sweet, little, daycare children here. Everyone was sitting at the table eating lunch. I turned on this CD so we could all listen. As soon as the narrator starting talking, the children’s eyes widened. Then the orchestra music sounded and the children were just delighted!

I enjoyed this CD. The music is astounding and professionally done. I did not understand everything that was said, but Yadu (the narrator) did a great job.

The music was conducted by Stephen Simon. It adds a powerful addition to the story.

This is a secular product. It includes:

1. “The Tortoise and the Hare” (20:43 minutes)

2. “About the Story” (2:49 minutes)

3. “Pretzel Vendor of Paris Song” (2:06 minutes)

4. “About the Music” (4.49 minutes)

5. “Now that you Know a little More…” (20:43 minutes)

6. “Want to Have some Fun? Prepare to Perform” (00:35 minutes)

7. “Pretzel Vendor of Paris Sing-Along” (2:06 minutes)

There is also a colorful booklet inside the CD case. It includes lyrics, pictures, facts, games and more. It is a lovely package.

To see reviews by fellow crew members:

http://www.homeschoolblogger.com/HomeschoolCrew/751523/

To find out more about my reviews, please visit "Introduction to our Homeschool Parlor"

Review Big Truths for Young Hearts

I admit it . . . I judged a book by its cover. Honestly, when I first looked at this book, I groaned. I didn’t want to read it. I thought it would be dry and boring. However, once I started reading, I was captivated from the very first sentence. To say this book is phenomenal is an understatement.

Let me just explain. Bruce A. Ware, the author, taught his two little girls all about God. He worked as a Professor of Christian theology in a Seminary and then came home each night to teach his precious daughters. These were his bedside talks with his children. The book is full of amazing explanations of our religious faith. He describes deep truths such as Sanctification, Trusting God, Our salvation, the Holy Spirit and so much more. I was literally comforted and reassured by his gentle and knowledgeable words. This man knows what he is talking about and knows how to teach it.

The book itself is designed for children ages 6 and up. I read this myself and found it perfect for adults as well. I plan to use this for a weekly study with my children. Imagine, if you will, a godly Pastor who has written a guidebook of lessons. You, as a parent, get to read these to your children. You get to teach and train and guide and comfort your little ones, using this excellent resource! The title of the book is perfect: “Big Truths for Young Hearts.” My only qualm is the cover. It needs a major overhaul.

*I received this book, for free, from the publisher for the purpose of sharing my opinion.*

The Frugal Adventure Begins

Immigrant Family Looking At Statue Of Liberty From Ellis Island




Immigrant Family Looking At Statue Of Liberty From Ellis Island

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Earlier this week, I wrote about a financial setback. But this morning.... this morning, I almost started laughing when I found out something. We lost one source of our income. This was the one which paid for Amy's (14) dance tuition. It also provided us with some of our food money. Well, it's gone now. I laughed at my calamity and was actually happy. Strange as that sounds, I was in a good mood.

I went into my kitchen and scrubbed my counters and smiled. I was content and peaceful.

The children are outside having a ball. They are sledding and making snowmen. They are smiling and happy. They have little fear when it comes to finances. They can easily adapt.

I am thinking about all the depression-era mothers and how they kept the house. They also sacrificed many things so their children could have extras whenever possible. We will find a way to keep Amy in dance. It means the world to her. I am not going to worry about where this money will come from because I only have today.

The Immigrant mothers lived on very little. They worked very hard and had very close, loving families. I admire them greatly. They scraped and saved and sacrificed to help make this country what it is today.

Today, I have enough cash to buy milk and bread and trash bags. I have enough money to put gas in my car for the week.

Today is all that matters. I am blessed beyond measure.


Mrs. White

Sunday, December 13, 2009

Classic Old Fashioned Housewife

Jardin de Paysanne









My husband’s mother passed away at the beginning of this year. I have been thinking about her a lot. She was a true homemaker. She stayed home to care for the family and did not work. She kept her house neat and clean. I don’t think I ever saw any clutter in her house. She raised six children and lived in a large Beach house in Massachusetts with her husband. She certainly had many hard times and financial troubles, but I have learned so much by just observing her daily life.

She would get up very early in the morning to make coffee. She would clean and cook and make things neat. Then she would sit at the kitchen table for a break. She took many breaks throughout the day. She would even visit with guests who came by. These were mostly her grown children.

I remember her looking out the window, into the yard, to watch her grandchildren play. She would smile and was so content. After that, she would go back to some household chore, do it cheerfully, and then go back to the window to watch the children.

We called her “Mem” (short for the French term for grandmother – “meme”). All her children adored her. The grandchildren loved her very much. She had a way of making each person feel special. Her entire life revolved around that house. She had no outside care or responsibility.  Money was not an issue for her. If she had none, she went without. She did not complain or scheme to find a way to get some. She was content with whatever was provided for her.

Mem rarely left the property. She was the true Keeper at Home. Everyone knew exactly where her heart was. We knew home and family was everything.

This is the classic old fashioned housewife I have tried to be for all of my married life.

Saturday, December 12, 2009

Precious Homemaking

New Day








I have been watching a lot of Little House on the Prairie. The past few episodes (season 5) had the family living in the city. The Ingalls were working in a hotel and restaurant. I noticed the most amazing thing. The dishes they were using were the same ones I have. I was so excited!

These are called "Blue Willow China" and have the name "Churchill of England" on them. I picked mine up at our local supermarket and I just love them. I didn't know a similar dish was used in the 1800's and was just delighted.

There are so many times I will buy a simple, inexpensive item to decorate, or make home more pleasant. If I ever get tired of cleaning, I will buy a nice little item (even something from the dollar store) and come home and set it up. It makes me want to organize and tidy and just enjoy my home even more.

Last year I bought some curtains for my living room. These are sheer burgundy panels. They were on clearance for four dollars each. I bought some material from the fabric store and cut this up to use as tie-backs. The curtains are neatly held back and look simple and lovely. Recently one of my girls received a gift of flowers from a young man. When these just about died, I took the "baby's breath" and arranged them in the corner of each tie- back on my curtains. It is a little thing, but makes it look so much nicer.

My favorite thing to do each morning is just to put on my apron, turn on some soothing music and slowly and methodically enjoy cleaning my house. I love to have a nice cup of tea while I work. I just sip on it throughout the morning.

We have tons of snow outside. It looks so pretty. The children are enjoying it and have made a few snowmen.

Today will be a restful day at home. A day of Precious Homemaking.

Blessings
Mrs. White

Friday, December 11, 2009

Struggling with Sadness

I have had such a hard morning. I am almost in tears.... There is just so much paperwork to do to handle bills and mail and our files. For some reason, I have not been organizing anything lately. I am going to have to take some time this coming week to just start throwing out old files and organize some new ones.

My poor family. They just kept looking at my sad face and saw my focused (stressed) attention on the bills. John (12) repeatedly tried to comfort me... "Do you want to watch some Little House on the Prairie later, Mom?" or he would say, "I am sorry you are having a bad day."

I ended up sending the children through a massive house- search to find my stapler. (sigh)Believe me, I have had better moments....

I was not mad at anyone. I was just quiet and not peaceful. My husband looked at me and said, if he didn't have to work, he would do all the bills and all the paperwork so I wouldn't have to do anything at all. He just wants me to be content and happy.

I am slowly calming down... I have everything ready to mail and when that is done, I will relax a little. Things can get downright stressful when you are paying all your bills, but have very little left over. I actually expected to have quite a bit of money as a cushion, but a $300 snow tire bill kind of shocked me this morning.

There goes the idea of buying more presents for everyone this month.

But we will be okay. We have a home. We have food. We have each other. And with this I must be content.

Hope you are all having a better day!


blessings
Mrs. White

(Anyone have some comforting Bible verses to share or testimonies of being cheerful in hard financial times?)

Thursday, December 10, 2009

Just a Little Winter Visit

The Spectator




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I have been so busy here at home. We had someone come out to inspect our house today. We are going to have the entire place weatherized. We are so excited. Our house was built in the 1850's and has quite a history. It was originally built by a lawyer for his wife and 10 children. We have some old pictures I was able to pick up from our local museum. It is so cozy and pleasant here, but it is also cold! So having the house insulated will make our winters much nicer.

We had our sweet daycare children with us today. They went sledding in the side yard and had a wonderful time with Amy (14) and John (12). Later we did a little shopping.

Earlier, I spent some time in the car with Nicole (20) and Matthew (16). They have such a different taste in music than I do. I also get stressed out when they talk about their plans and activities. (smiles). But I have learned to just listen to the Christian radio station or Christmas music to keep my nerves calm. After a little drive, we stopped at the post office. They were both wearing leather jackets and walked together into the building. I looked at them and was just so overcome with gratefulness that they are my children. They may be hooligans, but they are mine. (smiles)

Tonight, when I stood outside in our driveway, I looked around our property. There is snow everywhere and it is so dark, but there are Christmas lights so it is a sweet scene. But there is something more... it is a stillness in the air. ... A somber quiet and a warmth that you can only understand if you experience rural Vermont on a cool winter December evening. It is like the snow insulates the air and soothes you.

I can look up at the stars and shake off the cares of this world... It's like I am given the strength to walk back into my home with a cheerful attitude. I can then face my family, with all their trials and drama and troubles. And I can be the godly Mother with a peaceful heart.


Blessings
Mrs. White

Wednesday, December 9, 2009

A Winter Blizzard

Two Children Bring Home a Barrow-Load of Firewood for the Christmas Fire




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Everything has been canceled today. We have a snowy blizzard outside our window. It is so pretty. I did some grocery shopping yesterday so we are safe indoors and enjoying a warm home.

I am going to do a little cooking today and have some hot chocolate. I plan to read in my favorite chair, near the hearth. The children will read and then spend the afternoon outdoors with their sleds.

I have been in a lot of pain for the past week or so, but am much better today. Life is getting back to normal.

Amy (14) has been working on a cross-stitch pattern. She is the only one in our family who knows how to do this. Or maybe, I should say, the only one who has enough patience to do it!

I have all the children home today. We will do our best to be happy and quiet and enjoy our time together. Mr. White is also home on vacation. He has been doing projects throughout the house.

I am striving more and more for an old fashioned life. I want to focus on Scripture and the old ways. I want to avoid technology as much as possible.

I am taking the children's television and putting it away. During the month of October, I put it aside. Then, when they became ill with the flu several weeks ago, I pulled it back out for them. I have told them it will only be for sick times. They get so much more accomplished and are much more creative without the TV. I remember when I was a small child. There was one TV in our livingroom. Then Mother had a tiny set which was kept in a closet. If we were ill in bed, she would bring us a tray of soup and ginger ale and she would bring in that little set for us to watch. This is such a nice tradition and I want to do it for my own children.

I would love to pull out an old book by Charles Dickens and just sit quietly and read. Maybe I will look through our library collection and see what I can find.

I have enjoyed our visit. I hope you have a peaceful, wonderful day!

Blessings
Mrs. White

Tektoma Game Programming

TOS Crew Review

Product: Tektoma – Game Programming

Price: $14.95 per month

*I received this product from this company (for free), for the purpose of sharing my opinion.*

About:

From the website:

“Tektoma was founded in 2009 by Tom Marx and Matilda O'Connor, to provide 24 hour a day, 365 days per year access to engaging video tutorials that teach children game programming.”

At the website, you can play games such as “racing;” “arcade;” “platform;” and “adventure/fantasy.”

There are tutorials which teach you how to program and create your own games.

If you have a child who has an interest in computer programming or in gaming, this is just the resource you might be looking for.

Our Experience:

Since none of my children have any interest in gaming, this was hard for us to review. John (12) played a racing game and then we watched a tutorial of how to create our own. It was very complicated and information- intensive. It looks like something that would be for children who have a serious interest in this and are willing to do all the work to learn.

One thing I didn’t care for was it seemed like we had to download files to our computer every time we wanted to try a game.

For those who are interested, you can get a free 14 day trial. Once your child creates his own games, he can then share them on the website and other students can play them as well.

To see reviews by fellow crew members:

http://www.homeschoolblogger.com/HomeschoolCrew/745123/

To find out more about my reviews, please visit "Introduction to our Homeschool Parlor"

Monday, December 7, 2009

Resting at Home

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For the past few days, I have been ill and in a lot of pain. I am resting quietly at home. The children have been very sweet and helpful.

I went out today and did a little bit of shopping. I had our daycare children with me. It is so sweet to have babies around! They make me smile and always cheer me up.

Somehow, I have still been able to keep our house neat. I do housework and then take a long break. Everyone is so understanding and patient with me.

Tonight, I am going to get to bed early. I am so tired. I will probably have a nice hot cup of tea. I will probably watch an old episode of Little House on the Prairie and then I will fall asleep.

I pray tomorrow is a better day and that my pain will go away.

Hope all is well in your homes!

Blessings to all,
Mrs. White in rural, snowy, quiet Vermont
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