Thursday, January 8, 2026

Joy Comes in the Morning

Our table set for a special meal (with mashed potatoes). 
 

The cold weather brings a season of many illnesses. There is much sickness going around.  In the midst of such troubles, I am finding the periods of rest to be helpful.  This time of year reminds me of how very difficult life can be, yet how very blessed we are as we lean on the Lord for help.  As we endure hardships, moments of comfort and warmth are greatly appreciated. 

On a recent medical trip, the weather report was alarming.  We were scheduled to leave early in the morning.  There was snow and ice and freezing rain. We were cautioned on how to travel safely in such dangerous conditions.  I have a good set of winter tires on our car. I knew I would follow the guidelines, driving slowly and keeping a good distance between vehicles.  I expected it to take extra time to reach our destination in a nearby state. We were heading to a hospital for treatment for our patient.  It took a great deal of concentration and care to drive on this trip. It also took prayer. We had a few stops along the way and then we arrived at the hospital. It was so tiring but we felt blessed and encouraged because I knew the Lord was watching over us. 

When it was time to head to the hotel, I was cold and weary. The freezing rain was intent on bringing discouragement. But by the time I walked through the door of the hotel room, I felt the warmth and comfort of the cheerful room. It felt like I was home! I was so relieved and grateful for a good rest after such a challenging day. I knew that after a good night's rest, I would feel refreshed and ready to face another precious day of doing whatever the Lord had in store for me.  

Now that we have been back home for several days, there has been sickness and a time of slowing down to heal and recover my strength.  I have been overly weary today. As I was resting, I was thinking of how much I miss my parents (who lived here with us in this large old house for nearly 10 years).  I remember that whenever I felt very ill and tired, I would get on the telephone and call to the downstairs section to talk to my father. I would say, "Dad? Are you busy?"  He knew I had been sick and was worried about me. He would ask what I needed.  (I thought of the wonderful potatoes he always made, whenever he helped Mom make dinner when I was a child.) I did not have the energy to do very much. I knew he would be happy to help. I answered him by saying, "I would really love some mashed potatoes."  He never hesitated. He would have it ready in about a half hour. I knew Mom would help him. They were always so ready to bring cheer and comfort serving our family with a great sense of love.  I was always so grateful. This bit of homemade nourishment was such a comfort to me and always made me feel better. 

The love of family and home are what holds us together.  Over all of this is prayer from faithful, trusting hearts. The help we give to one another is so important. It brings encouragement and keeps us cheerful. The times we have of peace and rest are so very precious.  There will always be much work to be done. We are needed to take care of the dear family which requires stability and dedication.  But if we do it at our own pace, with our own capabilities in mind - never attempting more than we can realistically handle - we will feel a sense of calmness amid the trials. We must remember that even though the days can be very hard, the Lord is with us. He will provide the rest we need. It is the rest of healing and spiritual refreshment. Then joy will come in the morning. 

Blessings

Mrs. White

From the Archives -

Daily life with 4 generations in the house - In Pursuit of Christian Duty.

Practical Help - The Secret to a Clean House.

As lovely as this - The Cultured Society of Home


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12 comments:

  1. I pray that you receive the refilling of energy and strength that your body needs. Your post was what I needed today. Chronic illnesses and limited energy can be difficult to live with. Thank you for an encouraging post.

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  2. What a sweet and comforting memory you have shared with us here today, Mrs. White. We are doing our level best to stay away from crowds and maintain our health in this flu season as Danny is especially compromised. Praying that all of your family will stay safe and healthy and rest assured that God always brings joy in the morning!

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  3. Your table setting looks cozy and elegant. And mashed potatoes are always great! We eat lots of them. Glad that your trip was safe in the bad weather conditions. Freezing rain is the worst. Hope everyone feels better soon at your house.

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  4. Where I live, January is usually a snowy, quiet month, where I can catch my breath from all the holiday excitement. Unfortunately, today we are under flash flood warnings changing to blizzard conditions for the weekend. I am glad for my stocked pantry, grateful for our warm house and thankful to the Lord for my husband. I feel nervous with all this weird weather, but must keep in prayer to stay calm. Baking helps. Listening to instrumental Christian music helps, too. Hope your patient is doing ok and that this note finds sickness gone from your house, Mrs. White:).

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  5. Mrs. White, I'm so sorry you've been sick. That sweet story of your dad making you potatoes really warmed my heart. My dad would make me toast in the mornings and to this day, he made the best toast. What I wouldn't give to share breakfast with him again. I hope you feel better soon! Have a wonderful weekend. Stay warm and cozy.

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  6. This reminds me of a quote from Elizabeth Prentiss: If you could once make up your mind never to undertake more work ... than you can carry on calmly, quietly, without hurry or flurry ... and if the instant you feel yourself growing nervous and ... out of breath, you would stop and take a breath, you would find this simple common-sense rule doing for you what no prayers or tears could ever accomplish.
    Thank you
    Annieh

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  7. It has definitely been a difficult season with so much illness and the bad weather too. Thankful the Lord calmed your heart as you drove through the bad weather, and gave you a cheery room at the end of the day. I loved the special memory of your father making the potatoes for you. I miss my father so much too, and wish I could have one more conversation with him! Many blessings to you dear friend, praying the Lord's rest is sweet and that you stay warm and healthy!

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  8. Thank you for sharing this lovely post.
    I pray the Lord give your heart joy and peace as we travel thought this Winter. We have had illness here and we really need the Lord's comfort and nurture at those times. Your story of your dad warmed my heart. He left you a heart filled with happy memories and love.
    You are a delight and I always enjoy each post.
    Hugs from Shirley in Virginia

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  9. Dear Mrs. White, I hope by now you are feeling better. I miss my parents too, they were always there for me, like your precious parents. I've never been able to make grilled cheese sandwiches as good as my Dad did. :) What a sweet memory of your Dad. Best wishes to you and your family. -T

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  10. What a comforting memory of your parents. Somehow there is nothing quite the same as the comfort given by a parent when one is unwell.
    I hope you will feel better soon.

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  11. This year I decided to be brave and actually post a comment! Mostly, because I have recieved so much encouragment from Mrs White and this wonderful community for many years now and want to be an actual part of it rather than just be on the outside looking in.
    Your "letters" have always arrived at a time when I have needed some form of encouragment or comfort Mrs White along with a real sense of peace as I read them, so thank you for sharing them.

    When I read the comments section, I have a sense of belonging, like I have found a little family of like minded ladies who I feel I could sit with, have a cup of tea, a slice of cake with and just chat about good, wholesome things :)

    My husband and I live a quiet and simple life in the UK. We are devoted to the Lord and are seen a tad odd because of how we live our life and that is fine :) it is not for everyone.
    I reached the glorious age of 60 last year and felt I could "offficially" slow down to a pace that was more inkeeping with how I felt inside, rather than what the world was telling me. "60 is the new 30" you're still young enough to do this and do that, go here, go there! etc etc. I have come to realise there are a lot of people in the world that have a real issue with slowing down but not me :)

    We both work 15hrs a week over 2 days for our NHS and grow some of our own food/flowers but it was choosing, then implementing to become fully homebased (other than going to work) that our lives changed for the better in more ways than I can say.
    We work Saturdays and Sundays and have 1 morning a week when we shop for food items if need be. We pick our grandson up from little school on a Tuesday afternoon and get to spend quality time with him until his daddy comes home from work. We then share a meal where he says grace (so sweet) then they leave for their home.
    So other than those things, we are fully at home, living queitly, working the gardens and maintaining our home.

    Well I feel I have rambled on a tad here but I feel happy to have joined in this time :)

    Blessing to you all

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  12. I am so sorry, I have just noticed I did not sign in and my post shows me as annoymous. My name is Irene :)

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