Saturday, July 31, 2010

Homemaking with Frank Sinatra

Young at Heart



I am listening to classic old music while I clean my kitchen, and stare dreamily out the window. Did you ever see the Movie "Young at Heart" staring Doris Day and Frank Sinatra?  This adorable 1954 movie was a remake of the classic "Four Daughters" starring John Garfield.

I love watching about home-life in those old movies. Frank's character was a guest in the home of a family of talented musicians. It made me wish we had a large piano in the parlor for our visitors to entertain us!

I have always loved Doris Day. She is such a cheerful, smiling presence in every movie! 

Right now, I am getting ready to bake banana muffins while listening to Frank Sinatra serenade me. (smiles)

I love to create just the right ambiance of the Good Old Days at home!

Blessings
Mrs. White



What to do When Mama is Moody.

My favorite thing to write - Chore Letters for My Children.


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Friday, July 30, 2010

Memories of Writing Novels with Children

Young Girl Writing at Her Desk with Birds



When my children were little, we stayed home almost all the time. We were warm and cozy in our small house in Massachusetts. The heat would be on, the snow would be piled up out the window, but we would all be writing novels!

Nicole (10 at the time) was always writing these charming stories.  I would get so many good ideas from her. She was so entertaining! In the children's bedroom, there were two sets of bunkbeds. She had one of the top bunks. One day she had some junk mail. It was a credit card application. I walked into the room to talk to one of the other children. I looked up, saw her cute face, and darling smile, and heard her say, "Hmmm... do I own or rent the top bunk?" 

Rachel (11 or 12 at the time) had stacks and stacks of private notebooks. She used to write her stories in those. But she wrote "History" or "Science" on the front covers. When Nicole asked her why, she said, "Because Mom will never look at them."  She was homeschooled. (grins)

Matthew (7 at the time) would draw comics with Amy (around 5 years old then). They would spend hours drawing and inventing characters and ideas. John, was probably 3 then. He would just play nearby.

One day, in the middle of writing one of my children's novels, Rachel and Nicole started arguing. I smiled. Then I started writing down everything they said. They didn't notice at first. But when I asked them to hold on a minute and repeat something, they caught on to me. I was using their daily life as the basis for my stories!

Soon I was furiously typing on my word processor. When I finished a chapter, I would call all the children to gather around. They came running and giggling. They sat near me and listened to every word. Then I went back to work on another chapter. Once in a while, I would call out for Nicole. She was my assigned hostess. I would say, "More hot chocolate, please!" I couldn't write without my chocolately drink. She was constantly refilling my cup.

Most days we would all sit together in the living room, reading piles of library books. Anytime we came across something interesting, we would share our thoughts with everyone else.

On cold, rainy afternoons, we got to listen to the children share their novels. Nicole invented all kinds of great characters and plots. She would have Matthew, Amy, and John sit with her as she told her stories. They encouraged her with their eagerness, and she ended up writing an entire series of stories.

Rachel and I would be cooking in the kitchen while the children talked about their latest character or plan for their stories.

When the children grew up, we all stopped writing. I love going back and looking at the papers from the old days. I love reading and remembering those precious times on those cold winter days.

Blessings,
Mrs. White

How my children learned Social Skills.

The Wife's Job at Home - Doing My Part. 


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Winner of Healthy Snack

A winner has just been randomly selected to win a Snikiddy Snack.

The winner is Joyce!

She has already been contacted. Thanks so much to everyone who entered!
 

blessings
Mrs. White

Fit Mommy (Week 30)



The following is my check-in for Fit Mommy Friday. It is hosted by Denise. This is a way for many of us to encourage one another, to share our progress and to meet our own fitness goals. When you visit our blogs and read about our week, would you take a minute to share an encouraging comment?

Here's my week:

A New Plan - This week, I kept a journal of health and fitness in a notebook. I wrote down whenever I exercised and exactly what I ate and drank (including at what time). I've done this kind of thing in the past and it has always worked well. I am less likely to miss a workout if I have to write it down. I am less likely to eat junk food if I have to write it down. And I am more on track if I see when I last ate, or what it was.

I am also exercising at shorter intervals so it doesn't wear me out, or cause me to be ravenously hungry!


Sunday,

Morning - A few minutes of sit-ups and push-ups.
Evening - 10- 15 minutes of target toning workout with light weights.


Monday,

Morning - A few minutes of sit-ups and push-ups.


Tuesday,

Morning - A few minutes of sit-ups and push-ups.
Evening - 10 minutes of target toning workout with light weights.

Wednesday,

Morning - A few minutes of sit-ups and push-ups.
Evening - 10 minutes of target toning workout with light weights.

Thursday,

Morning - A few minutes of sit-ups and push-ups.
Evening - 10 minutes of target toning workout with light weights.


Friday,

Morning - A few minutes of sit-ups and push-ups.
(Later tonight, I will do - 10 minutes of target toning workout with light weights.)

Nutritional Accomplishment- I ate healthy all week - whole grains, fruit, vegetables, etc. I rarely ate any junk food. If I had any soda, it was only a few sips here and there throughout the week.


Fitness Goal: To have strength and endurance. I do not have any weight to lose, but need to keep my energy levels high and avoid eating too much sugary, junk food.

What are your fitness plans? Do you have some ideas to share? I hope you will join us every Friday for Fit Mommy!

Blessings
Mrs. White

The last 30 weeks as a Fit Mommy.

Seeking the Joy of a Clean Kitchen. 

Favorite part of the day - Mother's Break.


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Thursday, July 29, 2010

Uncle Rick Reads the Book of James

Product: Audio CD - Uncle Rick Reads the Book of James, by Rick Boyer.

Publisher: The Learning Parent

Price: $8.00

Rick Boyer is the father of fourteen children, and the grandfather of eight. He and his wife, Marilyn, are veteran homeschoolers and operate an excellent company, "The Learning Parent." 

In this CD, "Uncle Rick" begins by talking about the area in which he lives. He helps listeners get to know him a little better,  and helps them settle down to hear him read. His voice is clear, friendly and calming. He reads from the Bible and then goes back over it to explain its meaning. He shares some great ideas and examples.

John (13) and I listened to this while in our living room, doing chores, playing, and, at times, just sitting quietly. This CD would also be perfect to listen to while doing art projects or coloring at the table.  If you happen to have a CD player in your car (an advantage I do not possess at the moment -smiles), this would be delightful to listen to while driving!

Uncle Rick makes the Bible very clear and understandable. He reads from the King James version of the Bible. His Fatherly voice is interesting and wonderful to listen to.  I have to tell you - I smiled at times, because he is so entertaining!  He is an exceptional teacher!

Uncle Rick has several other CD's, such as "Uncle Rick reads the Book of Matthew" and "Uncle Rick reads the Proverbs." I actually own a 4 tape set of his, called "Uncle Rick reads the Psalms." It is excellent!

He also has some fabulous history resources. He reads The Story of Benjamin Franklin and The True Stories of Great Americans.  I would love to have these as well.

His wife, Marilyn, is the author of an astounding resource, a large hardcover book, For You They Signed, It is endorsed by such great names as Michael Farris, Beall Phillips and Chris Klicka.

The Boyer Family are wonderful, godly people and I am happy to endorse all of their resources. They are trustworthy, and their products have helped me tremendously, in my homeschool, for many years.

I hope you will visit The Learning Parent and get to know their family and company better. While you are there, please sign up for their free e-newsletter!

*Disclosure - I received this product from The Learning Parent for review purposes.*

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Wednesday, July 28, 2010

Homeschooling - Books - Reading Lists - and Swagbucks

Book Shop




I have been working on new ideas for homeschooling. I want stacks and stacks of new books for the children. So I started doing a little online searching. I found some inspiring websites:

1. Faith Christian School in Virginia offers several excellent reading lists for each grade level. I printed all of these out for later reference.

2. Dorothy Sayers (1893 - 1957) wrote and incredible piece in 1947, called "The Lost Tools of Learning." She presented this at Oxford.

3. Were you ever curious about the entrance requirements for Oxford University? I had the most delightful time reading their website. Can you imagine having children brilliant enough to attend such a prestigious British School?

Now I have a plan. I want to provide my two youngest with large notebooks and see how many fascinating books they can read of quality literature, during the coming year. They will write down every single book they read, in their notebooks.

I want to buy most of these books. I suppose I can do a little at a time, each month, to build up my home library, but I also plan to use our local library (an option I don't particularly care for, since we ALWAYS forget to return books.)

This brings me to Swagbucks. I found all the above resources while using the Swagbucks website. I have only recently become aware of the incredible benefit of this search engine. From what I understand, it is powered by Google and Ask.  However, you are rewareded for doing your regular, normal searches, by randomly receiving Swagbucks. You can redeem these for prizes like Amazon Gift Cards. I recently earned my very first gift card and am halfway to earning another one. If you are interested in earning prizes too, would you please (oh, please!) sign up under me? If you do, we both get swagbucks! Here is my referral link:

http://www.swagbucks.com/refer/legacyofhome

Do you see that lovely book shop in the above photograph? I really want to go there. I would spend hours browsing, dreaming and buying. Then I would have a hot cup of tea, on the outdoor patio, and enjoy a freshly baked pastry.  

Have a lovely day!

Blessings
Mrs. White

Here's an Easy Way to Prepare a Homeschool Student for College.

Come by for a visit - Homeschooling Today at The White House.

The Bad Days - When Mama is an Invalid.


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Tuesday, July 27, 2010

Heavy Cleaning



                 -  Teaching Home Economics to Daughters -



This post is part of an ongoing series to give you an inside look at what I am doing to teach my 15 year old daughter (Amy) the art of homemaking skills. I will also share stories and memories of how I taught my older daughters (currently ages 21 and 22). You can expect to see these posts every Tuesday, here at The Legacy of Home.

Category - Cleaning.

Amy had plenty of energy today, so she offered (yes, offered!) to do some of the chore cards.  I was thrilled. The whole time she was working, she did impersonations of different movie stars. She would say various phrases using voices for people like "Corey" from "Boy Meets World;" or "Owen Wilson." She just blabbered on and on while she smiled and laughed and worked.

Here's what she did:

1. Washed the Kitchen Floor.

2. Scrubbed the Kitchen Sink.

3. Washed all the Mirrors in the House.

4. Cleaned the Toilet. (Well, that one was because she used inappropriate language this morning.)

5. Washed the bathroom door. (Yes, you are supposed to do that!)

6. Dusted all Ceiling Fans in the House. (She wasn't sure how, so we found a website with info. This job was usually done by her brother, Matthew.)

7. Wash, Dry and Organize bathroom shelves.

8. Clean the "plate" (or whatever you call it) that goes over the bathroom ventilation fan. (She took this outside to hose it off, then let it dry out in the sun.)



None of this includes all the work she offered to do yesterday. I hope this keeps up! That girl has so much energy!!!!

Want to teach your daughter how to do heavy cleaning? Consider using a few chore cards each day. You may very well have the cleanest house ever!

Blessings
Mrs. White

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Dreaming about School

School



I am just about to have my first cup of tea for the day. I am going to sit with a catalog from Rod and Staff publishers and dream about all the curriculum and resources I would love to buy from them.

I want to re-organize my dining area to make it ready for school. It will take some creativity on my part to make sure it still looks like a home, but I want a "school aura" as well.

This year, I am only teaching two students - Amy (15) and John (13). Matthew, at 17, is taking his tests to graduate over the next couple of weeks. I am hoping he will go to college within the next semester or so.

I have been doing a lot of baking lately. Tomorrow I will bake banana muffins. The children love to help themselves to fresh baked muffins when they are eager for a snack. Muffins are also very filling. Maybe I will put one of these in a lunch bag for them, just for fun!

Yesterday, John and I went out into our playground (a fenced in area on the side of our property). I sat on a swing and enjoyed myself immensely. Then John and I played kickball for awhile. The wind was blowing, the trees offered plenty of shade and the sun provided just enough warmth to make it a delightful day. But here's the fun part. I packed a snack in a brown lunch bag for us. We each got a baggie of grapes and cheese. It was almost like a mini-picnic!

Honestly, after homeschooling for almost 20 years, I have no idea what my life will be like when I no longer have students in my happy homeschool.

Blessings
Mrs. White

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Monday, July 26, 2010

Monday's Front Porch Visit - The No TV question

Southern Grace



Come on over and join me on the front porch for our Monday visit! 

On Saturday, John (13) and I watched a television movie, "Jack's Family Adventure," on the Hallmark channel.  It was about a Mother and Father and their two teenage children, who spent the summer in a cabin in the woods. It was fascinating to watch them give up cell phones and video games. Frankly, the show inspired me to want to keep the electricity (mostly) off and just live a quiet life at home. Then I walked into the living room, did a few things, and got bored. (smiles) So, I went back to watch another show.

I have to say, there have been times in my life when I didn't watched TV at all. I didn't even miss it. But lately, I find it relaxing and cheerful. Yesterday I watched a 1940's movie with Jane Wyman on Turner Classic Movies and I loved it.  My television watching doesn't last more than 2 hours at a time, possibly 2 hours a day.  But I would love to hear from those of you who don't watch any television, DVDs or anything at all. What do you do all day long at home?

After resting for most of yesterday, I got to work on a delightful supper. I decided to bake and cook at the same time. I had a couple of helpers with me for a few minutes, but then sent them off to play. If I feel under pressure in the kitchen, I have to work alone. I turned on gospel music and peeled cucumbers. I boiled pasta, fried up some ground burger, started mixing up a batch of homemade, whole wheat, apple cinnamon muffins, sliced sharp cheddar cheese, diced apples, opened a can of peas, and somehow got it all organized.

John set the table. I called the children in for supper. Matthew's (17) girlfriend was visiting, so she ate with us too. She is a sweet girl.  I served everyone "restaurant style," which means I portioned out the food onto each plate and brought them to each person, as a waitress does.

On each plate:

1. Penne pasta with cheddar cheese, burger and Prego sauce.
2. Sliced cucumbers.
3. Green Giant Peas.
4. Fresh Grapes.

While the children were eating, the delightful scent of apple cinnamon baking in the oven carried through the air. . . Heavenly.

When it was time to take the muffins out, I let them sit on the stove for a few minutes. Then transferred them to a cooling rack. Next, I buttered the top of each one. Then delicately sprinkled them with sugar. They were scrumptious!  Making perfect muffins requires excellent recipes.  I use the greatest cookbook in the world. It is Mostly Muffins by Barbara Albright and Leslie Weiner. It was published in 1984 and has been my constant kitchen companion all these years!

I am planning to make homemade pizza tonight and I am going to watch a Turner Classic Movie. We are going to have a glorious day!

Blessings
Mrs. White

The Old Time Housewives and  Summer Housekeeping

Making Breakfast, pondering home life in - Frugal Homemaking.


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Sunday, July 25, 2010

Hiding At Home

Garden Sanctuary




It is raining and cool this morning. I have been hiding at home for several days. I mean that I have been sheltered and quiet and staying home. My car broke down last week and I have not been able to do any errands or driving. I have been making the most of my hidden time at home. I love it!

There is all the freedom in the world to stay home and do as one likes. I have walked the property, cleaned and organized, baked and cooked at an unhurried pace. Late last night, I sat on the front porch on my rocking chair, in the dark, and just enjoyed the beauty of silence.

I have lovely plans for today. I am wearing my favorite house dress. I want to bake some apple cinnamon muffins and serve them with fresh grapes. I will read and relax and enjoy my family and home. This evening I will make a special supper with sharp cheddar cheese, pasta, burger and peas.

I hope you have a cheerful day at home!

Blessings
Mrs. White
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Friday, July 23, 2010

King Arthur Flour and Cookbook Giveaway

I have a delightful surprise for you today! Do you like to bake with quality ingredients? Would you like to improve your baking skills? I have just the treat for you! I have a special giveaway to offer.

King Arthur Flour is located in my home state of Vermont. They have been in business for over 200 years!  Their flour is the number one selling  flour in New England! Here's why:

1. They have an outstanding commitment to teach baking skills. They have ongoing classes which are a baker's dream.

2. Their Flour is the highest quality I have ever used.

3. Their recipes, and entertaining approach to sharing their knowledge is fabulous!

4. They are 100% Employee owned, and take pride in their work.


 - They have a store, cafe and cooking school .
 
- They are open every day and bake every day!

- Wouldn't you love to try their chocolate croissants?

- They offer baking classes to all ages, from children to professionals!


I have been using their flour for many years.  I remember getting ready to bake whole wheat bread for the first time. I was a young mother with small children. I already knew how to make white bread, but wanted to try the healthy, wheat version.

I went to the supermarket and found a bag of King  Arthur Whole Wheat Flour. There was an easy recipe on the back, and lots of encouraging information - like their quality guarantee, and their instructions for storing the flour.

When I baked my first batch of bread, using this flour, I was hooked for life! If you want delicious baked goods, you need to use quality ingredients.

I recently received a package which contained 3 bags of flour, a bag of baking mix, and an enormous cookbook. I was so excited!

1. Five Pound Bag of King Arthur All-Purpose Flour (Item #3005) - $4.50

I used this to make pizza, muffins, and cookies.

2. Five Pound Bag of King Arthur Whole Wheat Flour (Item #3015) - $4.50

I used this to make pizza, muffins and cookies. I used this combined with the All Purpose Flour at times, or just the whole wheat as the only flour.

3. Five Pound Bag of King Arthur White Whole Wheat Flour (Item #3311) - $4.50

I used this to make delicious chocolate chip cookies! I will use some today to make a batch of delicious Soft Pretzels!

4. Three Pound Bag of Whole Grain Baking Mix (Item #3391) - $9.95

This has two recipes on the back. One is for pancakes and the other is for biscuits. I made the biscuits. They were so easy to mix up! I made a batch of 8 large biscuits and my family loved them!  One batch of biscuits used only a small portion of the mix. I plan to make more biscuits to go with Beef Stew this week.

5. King Arthur Flour Whole Grain Baking Book (Item #2722) - $29.95

I have dreamed of getting my very own cookbook from King Arthur! Their free recipes on their website, and on the back of their flours is wonderful, but I wanted more! I was so happy to receive this cookbook for keeps!  

It is full of detailed instructions on baking. The recipes are clear and easy to follow. The ingredients they use are easy to find.

By following their helpful tips, scientific baking facts, and guidelines, you will learn how to be a fabulous, confident baker!

The book contains chapters on Breakfast foods, Quick Breads (and scones!), Cobblers, Flatbreads, Yeast Breads, Sourdough, Cookies, Pie, Pastry and more. There is also a glossary and an index. It contains over 600 pages of pure baking delight!

How would you like a chance to win some King Arthur Flour and a Cookbook? You'll receive exactly what I just described -  

 * 3 (5 pound) bags of King Arthur Flour,
 * 1 (3 pound) Bag of King Arthur Whole Grain Baking Mix,
 * 600 + page King Arthur Whole Grain Baking Cookbook.

All you have to do is leave me a comment, telling me how you learned to bake. 


For additional entries:

2. Become a Public Follower of my blog. Or let me know you are already a follower.

3. Subscribe to The Legacy of Home through Feedburner. 

4. Write a post, linking to this giveaway, on your own Blog. (This is worth 3 entries. Please leave 3 separate comments.)

5. Tweet about this Giveaway.

6. Follow me on Twitter

7. Post about this on Facebook.

8. Choose to "Like" The Legacy of Home on Facebook.

9. Follow King Arthur Flour on Twitter.

10. Choose to "Like" King Arthur Flour on Facebook.

*Please leave a separate comment for each entry.*

Super Bonus Entries - Come back every day and leave me a comment with a baking tip. 

One random winner we be selected on Thursday, August 5, 2010. (U.S.  Entries only.) If I am unable to reach the winner within 48 hours, an alternate winner will be selected. Your entry is only valid if you include an email address  for me to contact you. This product will ship directly from the company.

This contest is closed. The winner is Cindy!

*Disclosure -  King Arthur Flour provided me with these products  for review purposes.*

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Fit Mommy (Week 29)



The following is my check-in for Fit Mommy Friday. It is hosted by Denise. This is a way for many of us to encourage one another, to share our progress and to meet our own fitness goals. When you visit our blogs and read about our week, would you take a minute to share an encouraging comment?

Here's my week:

Sunday,
Evening - Heavy cleaning while wearing ankle weights.

Monday,
I doubt I did anything.

Tuesday,
I don't recall.

Wednesday,
Evening - Amy (15) and I did push ups and sit-ups.

Thursday,
Morning - I managed a 7 minute workout!

Late morning - wore ankle weights while cleaning.

Afternoon - Amy (15), John (13) and I jogged around the property several times.

Late evening - tons of heavy housework.

Friday,
Morning - 30 minute workout with light weights.

Nutritional Accomplishment- I had whole wheat, lettuce and cucumber sandwiches several times this week. (Failure - Must I mention all the horrifying soda I drank?)

Fitness Goal: To have strength and endurance. I do not have any weight to lose, but need to keep my energy levels high and avoid eating too much sugary, junk food.

Are you working on being a Fit Mommy? We'd love to have you join us!

Blessings
Mrs. White

Thursday, July 22, 2010

Afternoon Tea in Vermont

Family in Kitchen, 1946



It is late afternoon and getting close to the supper hour. It is time for me to get motivated, put on an apron and start peeling potatoes and create a delicious meal.

But first, I want to visit with you! I am going to have a little tea in a china tea cup, with a saucer underneath. I am going to rest with a pleasant book and sip on my tea, while enjoying the quiet of this summer afternoon in Vermont.

       I need to set up a pretty table cloth and make the effort to create a haven here at home. 

Then I will do a little laundry and begin working in my kitchen. My children are all being delightful today. They are quiet and productive.  I think it helps that we have a three story house, 14 rooms and 2 acres of land. There is plenty for them to do. I think I will send them outside for a game while I prepare the evening meal. Then I will surprise them by going on my front porch and ringing our dinner bell so they come running!  I do so love to see their smiling faces when they run towards me. 

What are you making for supper?

Blessings
Mrs. White

Happy memories Remembering Suppertime.

I hope we all have Real Old Fashioned Suppers.


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Travel Kits by Donna Rees

TOS Crew Review

Product - E-Book: Travel Kits - A Simple Way to Bless Others by Donna Rees

Publisher - The Old Schoolhouse Store

Pages - 93

Price - $12.45

Ages - Adults and older children

This book is the ultimate guide to hospitality and kindness to others. Have you always wondered how you can help others?  Would you like to keep a set of items available to bless someone else on the spur of the moment? How about keeping your own children happy on car trips? Travel Kits is the ideal guide-book to help all of us create wonderful gifts which are greatly needed in this current society.

How many of us are in the car on a daily basis? How many of us do a lot of traveling and errands? I would venture to say that most of us are constantly in the car.  What is even more important - we are often in the car with small children who need to stay occupied and productive!

Enter - Travel Kits -

This 93 page book consists of 14 chapters and a bonus section. You'll find information on things like:

- A suggested book list for children and adults.

- Links to websites for tourism and more ideas.

- Beautiful photographs with tons of ideas to spark creativity in all of us!

-  Lots of game ideas, snacks and toys.


Some of her ideas:

-Gag Glasses - can you just imagine how much giggling would go on in the back seat if your children each had one of these? 

- Bunny ears and headbands and ribbons - all wrapped in pretty paper! (I can just imagine how excited my children would be, once they got settled in their seats, buckled up and said, "Can we open the presents now?")

- Put a number on each present. Have the children open one every 30 minutes. This is fabulous for long car trips!


Donna has done a fabulous job inspiring us all to make the most of traveling. It might possibly end the frustration of grumpy, children who fight!  Thank you Donna!!

Visit the Old Schoolhouse Store for lots more resources for families! 


To find out more about my reviews, please visit "Introduction to our Homeschool Parlor"

*I received this product, from the publisher, for review purposes through The Old Schoolhouse Magazine Crew*



Wednesday, July 21, 2010

Evening Time for Mother

A House in a Snow Covered Landscape






The sun has set. The family is inside the warm house. They have finished their supper and now they sit together for Family Worship.

After a time of prayer and Bible study, Mother gives baths to the littlest ones and reads them a story.

She tucks the babies into bed, smiles sweetly, and turns out the light. Her babies will sleep well.

Mother tidies the kitchen and then has some tea and coffee-cake with her husband.

There are a few little lights on around the house, making it warm and cozy.

It is evening time at home.

May your home be filled with goodness and grace and happiness!

Blessings,
Mrs. White

Early tomorrow, don't forget your Sweet Morning Devotions.

Have you heard Mother's Hymns? 

Won't you join me for The Sewing Hour?

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A Simple Guide - How to Pay your Bills

The Expense Account



I want to share some ideas for paying bills. This will be quick and easy and (almost) painless. I will start with regular expenses, then move on to delinquent accounts. This is a basic guide for regular payments. This is not about getting out of debt. However, I will also share with you how to handle creditors when you are in a financial crisis.

1. The Checking Account - I will share the basics and then tell you why I dislike checking accounts.


If you have a checkbook in your hand, it is far too easy to spend money on impulse. These are often small amounts of money, but it will add up far too quickly. You might think, "Well, those snacks are only $6.00. I'll write a check." or "I am going to buy that bedding set, it is on sale."

What about special offers which come in the mail? A magazine Subscription? Write that check for $14.00. Or a new book? Write another check for $12.50.  It doesn't really seem like money when you write those checks. It is not painful enough. It is too easy and then you are broke! (*I will explain an option for paying bills without writing checks in a moment.*)

If you have cash in your hand, and a specific budget in mind, you are less likely to overspend.

To keep your checkbook balanced - 

It is important to write down every single transaction in the checkbook register. You will need to record deposits, withdrawals and checks you write. You will also need to keep this register balanced. You should always know exactly how much money is in your account, by looking in your register...

Do I have to say this?.... Calling the bank to get a balance will not be accurate! . . All transactions do not go through your account immediately. Some checks will not clear for a few days. It is your responsibility to do the math every single time you use your checking account in order to know the exact balance.

If you fail to do this - you may be charged overdraft fees as much as $30 each. You may also be charged $3 a day for every single day your account is overdrawn. This can add up to an enormous amount of money.

To avoid this - keep detailed and accurate records. You must also balance your account by using the worksheet on the back of your monthly bank statement. If your account does not balance, double check your math and find the mistake!  You must balance your account every single month in order to avoid costly fees. 

If you have a debit / ATM card, some banks charge you a $1.00 - $2.00 fee just for doing a balance inquiry!! Take a look at your monthly statement to see if this is happening to you!

If you enjoy bookkeeping and math - you will not have a problem. If, however, you want to simplify your life, I have another idea:


The Money Order -

Some banks allow you one free money order each day, if you have an account with them. If your bills are very simple, you may only need 4 -- 6 of these per month.

If you have to pay for your money orders - the Post office charges between $1.10 and $1.50 per money order. From what I understand, Wal-Mart sells money orders as well.

If you have trouble maintaining a checking account, switching to money orders to pay bills is an excellent alternative. You will also have to hand over cash, making it very real, when you buy them.

If you have to go through all the trouble to get a money order before you pay a bill, order a subscription, or mail in an order for clothes, you are less likely to spend on impulse. I believe Money Orders will save you some serious money!

How to simplify your bills -

1. Cut down to the basics - mortgage (or rent)/ electric/ insurance/ phone/ heat/ and trash removal.
That would be 6 bills to pay  - 6 money orders to purchase.

2. If possible, in order to simplify your life, get rid of costly cell phone bills/ internet/ cable/ subscriptions, etc.

3. If you pay using money orders, you will not need to balance a checkbook. How much time did that just save you?

4. Use a budget each week, on payday, to plan exactly what to do with your money. Use envelopes or a bank bag to keep the cash until you buy money orders, do grocery shopping, etc.

5. If possible, spend money (or pay bills) on only one or two days each week.  Remember the old days, when the family took a trip to town once a week? They certainly did not spend money every single day!

6. Get a savings account, at your local bank,  to keep cash. This will make it harder for you to spend on impulse. It will also help your money earn a little bit of interest. How many people even have savings accounts anymore?

7. If you have automatic payment for your bills, consider having the payment come out of your savings account, rather than a checking account. You can also have more than one savings account - one for your bills, and one for your savings plan.

8. If you must get a debit card, use a checking account ONLY for debit transactions and be sure you record every single expense right when it happens. Ask the bank for a checkbook register so you can keep excellent records.

Delinquent Bills -

If you are in the middle of a financial crisis, I have some suggestions for paying your bills.

1. If you have a credit card account and the payment is already overdue, you could be charged an additional late fee, and possibly an over-the-limit fee if you don't pay it quickly. If you must pay by phone, here is what you need to know:

- You can pay (by phone) using a checking account. They will ask for your bank's "routing transit number." This is on the left side of your check. Or, you can call your local bank to get this number. You will also need your bank account number.

- The credit company will charge you a fee for an over the phone payment - often $10.

- You will need to have your credit card statement in front of you. You need to tell them your account number, which can be found right on your statement.

Please pay your credit card bills on time, at least a week before the due date, in order to avoid additional fees. I would also be delighted if you canceled your account and cut up your card!  You can just make payments until that account is paid off. Please don't charge anything else on it. If you don't have cash to pay for things, you are risking your financial future by borrowing from the card sharks.

2. Overdue utility bills -

Have you ever received a shut-off notice from your electric or telephone company? You can negotiate a small payment plan, depending on how much money you have available. You do not have to pay an entire overdue balance at once. As a matter of fact, you should NEVER pay off an overdue balance at once, unless you have plenty of money. I do not want you to go hungry. I do not want you to run out of gas for your car. I do not want your children to go hungry or not have medical care. You must have some cash available for regular life.

- Depending on how much you owe, you can offer $10  - $50 extra per month, in addition to your regular monthly fee, until you pay off the overdue balance.  Make sure they understand that you are more than willing to pay your bill and will take care of it as soon as possible. Then make sure you pay as agreed!

3.  Overdue repair bills, and other delinquent accounts -

- Make every effort to pay these in a reasonable amount of time. Sacrifice personal spending, sell something, whatever you need to do in order to get control of these overdue accounts.

- If you are being harassed by phone, get an unlisted number. Bill collectors are trained to keep you on the phone and threaten, scare and coerce you into making promises you probably cannot keep. Some of them even ask for your bank account number so they can do an automatic withdrawal each month. Please do not agree to this! Obviously, if you don't have much money, how will you afford those automatic payments? You could be setting yourself up for bank fees because of an overdrawn account.

- Next, write a letter to your creditor letting them know you are having financial problems. Tell them how much you can pay each month and include a check or money order for your first payment.  As long as you are making every effort to pay this bill, and you pay consistently at the same time each month, your creditor will be happy.

- If you receive a large amount of money, such as a bonus from work, income from an odd job, or a tax refund, please pay off these old bills promptly and thank them for their patience. Remember, they need to earn a living too!

Where to find help -

1. Every bank is more than willing to sit down and talk to you about your bank accounts. They are happy to show you how to balance your checking account, how to write a check and how to fill out a money order.  As a matter of fact, I know a very wealthy man who goes to his banker every single month with a stack of bills and visits while the banker writes out the checks to pay his bills! It is not just the poor who struggle with paying bills!

2. Crown Financial Ministries is an excellent organization. They have several resources and information to help you get control of your finances. They are a Christian Based company founded by the late Larry Burkett.

3. If you are in debt and looking for help in obtaining financial freedom - Dave Ramsey is the place to go!

Here are some outstanding books on Financial Management (these are all older resources, but classics!) -

1. Your Money or Your Life  by Vicki Robin and Joe Dominguez

2.  The Complete Guide to Managing your Money by Larry Burkett

3. Debt Free and Prosperous Living Basic Course by John Cummuta. 


 - What are your favorite resources for simplifying your financial life?

 - What do teenagers today need to learn about money before they can successfully function as adults?

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Blessing
Mrs. White
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Product - Baked Cheddar Fries

Brand - Snikiddy - All Natural

Details:

A healthy, tasty alternative to typical fried snacks like potato chips, making them a favorite for families seeking healthy snack options-

* All Natural
* Gluten-free
* Wheat-free
* No corn syrup
* Peanut-free
* No preservatives
* No trans fats
* No hydrogenated oils
* 50% less fat than potato chips

My Thoughts

This yummy snack is made from corn and potatoes, with a touch of spicy seasonings. They are puffed fries and have a light crispness to them. . .  and a crunch!

The 1 oz sample bag I received is the perfect size for travel, school lunches, or an afternoon treat. Snikiddy offers several flavors to choose from.

Snikiddy was founded by a mother-daughter team who are committed to good health and creating delicious food.  Did you know Snikiddy was featured on the Today Show? They also have a Snikiddy Snack Active challenge. Entrants to their contest are required to film a short video clip showing how they are being active, while enjoying a Snikiddy Snack. Is that a great idea or what?

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