Thursday, July 19, 2018

Summer Days with Small Children

Pink Hydrangeas on Mrs. White's front Porch 

We have been enjoying having the children and grandchildren over quite a bit the last few weeks. Summer days are a relaxing time to enjoy the outdoors and the peaceful pace of the season.

It is good to have a routine to prevent grumpiness in the family. Children can get overwhelmed with all the activity and they may get over-tired.  A routine and a schedule can help prevent this.

When I was growing up, all the mothers in the neighborhood were home.  I had relatives who lived on our street, as well as on a few streets over.  We would get together for picnics in our front yard.  There was watermelon and just happy times of playing.  We children would walk around the neighborhood, going to the corner store and to the private beach at the end of our Massachusetts street.

We were always delighted when the ice cream truck would drive down our road. We would be outside playing and hear the bell.  Since we lived on a dead-end road, we knew we had time to run to our Mothers for some change.  Then we would run back out to the sidewalk and wait with the money in our hands. We would just stand there, like good, sweet children, waiting patiently.  Soon we would hear the bell ringing and the truck would be heading back to us.  We loved taking our time choosing which treat we wanted.

When my own children were growing up, times were very different.  There were not so many mothers at home anymore.  But I kept a traditional summer routine, much like the one my mother had for us.

We would get up early and have our breakfast before the heat really settled in.  Any chores or baking had to be done in the morning hours.  I often started the process of supper before we got too tired.  This might be peeling potatoes, putting them in a large pan and filling it up with water.  I could just put a cover on this and let it sit until three in the afternoon when I started making the evening meal.  I was always a slow worker and wanted plenty of time to do the job.  When there was a lot of time available, there was less stress.  There would always be interruptions. Children would want to hear a story, or someone would need a Band-Aid.   Perhaps the phone would ring.  (This was before caller ID and before answering machines.)  I would make the call brief because the focus at this time of day was family and the dinner hour.   Most people understood that the evening time was just for family and the peaceful routine of winding down the day. Slowly and peacefully the kitchen work would be accomplished.

Throughout summer days, the children would have time to play outside.  I would often sit nearby while they played and laughed together. They always did something cute or entertaining that brought me a great deal of joy! 

Sometimes I would encourage a new game if they were getting bored. I would show them how to set up some toys and get them stared.  This would quiet them down and they would get back to their play.  I tried not to let the children get "too riled up" because it would wear them out so much that they would get grumpy.  Children need peace and gentleness.  They need mother with patience and wisdom.

The children would need plenty of juice and light snacks. Lunch was always at around noon each day.  Then it was time for naps and rest in a nice cool room.  Often, the children needed to hear a few stories to help them to relax before their nap.

A nutritious snack and more juice would be served after this. We always had the children fold their little hands and bow their heads in prayer for all meals and snacks. It was so precious to see their little happy faces as they did this.

Soon they were back outside in the fresh air and sunshine.  If there was a baby, we would often just settle in the shade on a blanket or with a carriage (stroller).  We would usually stay outside for about an hour at a time and then come back in to rest or to play indoors.

 I always had the children help me with the chores, whether it was folding towels, sweeping the porch, or doing the dishes.  The children enjoyed helping me because we all did it together and talked and smiled.  I would praise them for their hard work and they would feel proud of themselves.  They needed to feel they were helpful and doing good things.

If it was very hot, there would be plenty of Popsicles served throughout the day. But we only ate at the kitchen table.  This helped keep the house neat and clean. Of course, the children were also welcome to have their treat outside and we often did this with watermelon at the picnic table.

The children loved to play with bubbles, little kiddie pools, beach toys, toy trucks, and baby dolls.  They could play for long periods of time if only a few items were offered. This way they were not overwhelmed. I would often help them clean up their games after use. This helped in two ways:

1.  The work was kept up to keep things generally in order.

2.  If everything was put away several times throughout the day, the children were always delighted to start fresh and play.  (Usually if the toys are left out and there is a mess, the children don't seem to notice their games and get bored. But if it is all cleaned up they want to play all over again!)

The main focus of the house was on the happiness and peacefulness of the family. If there was yelling or quarrelling among the children, it didn't last long.  All childish troubles were gently calmed with encouragement, wisdom, patience, and a great deal of understanding and love.

After supper, it would be bath time.  Soon the children would be cozy in their pajamas.  There was quiet play in the living room with perhaps a time of reading.  Sweet, sleepy children would be tucked into their beds with a prayer, a hug and kiss, and a gentle encouragement of a "goodnight. I'll see you in the morning."

These days, I am hearing that this kind of childhood is not so common in our culture.  Many mothers work outside the home.  When children are not in school or daycare, they attend something called, "day camp" in the summer months.  I very much appreciate that this is available for the working parents. But I can't help wondering what little ones are missing out on, when they are not able to have carefree summers at home, year-after-childhood-year, with Mama.


From the Archives -

Precious Days - Walking the Gardens with Baby.

A Blessing to have - A House Full of Babies.

A Happy Home - Serving Mister.

Mrs. White's special book for Homemakers - "Mother's Book of Home Economics."

An Invitation - Subscribe to The Legacy of Home and have it delivered directly to your email. 


Tuesday, June 26, 2018

30th Wedding Anniversary

Library of Congress:  Earle Landis family, 1942, anniversary party in Pennsylvania

In just a few days, Papa and I will have our 30th wedding anniversary. I have been trying to think of ways to make it a special day.  We are not the type of people who go out for a special dinner, or take a vacation, or spend money on expensive gifts.  Even though we would certainly enjoy those things, we have never had the funds.  The last time we went out to dinner together was shortly after we were married, 30 years ago.  We have been focused on the quiet of home and raising a family. There has always been work to do.  There will always be work on our anniversaries as well.  It is the work of loving our home, our children, and our grandchildren.  We just have to find a way to make special days a bit distinctive and above the ordinary.

I can just imagine what Ma Ingalls would have done during a time when they lived in seclusion out on the prairie.  Perhaps she would have dressed up a bit with a pretty ribbon in her hair.  She would have saved good sugar, over time, to be able to make an anniversary cake.  After the family did the farm work and all the regular chores which were necessary for survival, perhaps Pa would have surprised Ma with some precious homemade gift to delight her. It was just little thoughtful things that made special days distinctive.

This year I will make a white cake, and use my white tablecloth.  I have a special photo album (an anniversary book) showing our years together.  I will find a few pictures from this past year and add them to the book.  Papa and I recently had our picture taken, just a few days ago, during an outside picnic for one of the grandchildren.  I will add this picture to my wedding anniversary book.  (I would share it here, but must protect Papa's privacy.  - gentle smiles)

Some of the children and grandchildren will be here to visit.  Some of us will attend church services, since the anniversary falls on a Sunday this year.  We will make the house look extra pretty and a bit festive.  Then, in the quiet of the afternoon, we will thank the Lord for giving us these many years together and ask for many more.

Mrs. White

From the Archives -

A Special Gift for Grandbaby - Tea Napkins.

Difficulty of Motherhood - Pioneer Homeschooling Mothers.

The Mother of D.L. Moody - Poverty in the 1800's.

Mrs. White's special book for Homemakers - "Mother's Book of Home Economics."

An Invitation - Subscribe to The Legacy of Home and have it delivered directly to your email. 


Friday, June 22, 2018

Finding Time and Strength to Write

A desk in Mrs. White's Home

I have not written much here on the blog for quite some time.  Often it is very difficult to find a quiet space, or some time, to think.  This year we have guests staying with us for the spring and summer months.  I have given them our back parlour where I used to write.

Yesterday I realized there is an empty wall in one of the rooms. I measured my old desk and found it would fit perfectly.  This room is on the first floor, where my parent's bedroom used to be.  (They lived with us for 9 years.)  They have since gone home to Heaven.  Lately, I have been using the room to watch Charles Stanley sermons on DVD. These are ones offered for free from time-to-time through the ministry. I like to watch them in that room in the quiet of the morning before everyone wakes up.  My father was the one who had we children watch Dr. Stanley's sermons on television in the 1980's.  So I find it comforting to hear his sermons.

Now that my desk is in that room, I can bring in my laptop and start writing early in the day, just after the sun rises.  It is also a good time for prayer, hear a sermon, and to get ready for a busy day with the family.

On the desk, in the picture above, there is a lace table runner (or bureau scarf).  It was a beautiful gift from a dear reader.  You will also see a picture that says, "Prayer."  It also says, in smaller print, "When life gets too hard to stand. . Kneel."  This was given to me by another dear reader. These are very precious items that are so helpful. This is how I get my strength.

I have gotten behind on writing reviews because I really dread doing them.  I am going to try to seriously limit them to rare occasions.  I just caught up on them today, and will start getting back to a regular routine of regular writing.  Thank you for your patience with me.  Thank you for reading.  I am very grateful.

We have had so many trials in the last few years.  A little over three years ago, my husband became disabled.  This has been a drastic change in our lives.  It has taken a  long time to understand what was happening and to adjust.  We have settled into a new way of life.  It is a much quieter way with a very limited income.  The Lord provides and we are content and blessed.   All is well.


From the Archives -

Marriage - When Groceries are the Presents.

Difficult Times - How a Godly Mother may Guide an Imperfect Family.

This is so important to remember - The House Comes First.

Mrs. White's special book for Homemakers - "Mother's Book of Home Economics."

An Invitation - Subscribe to The Legacy of Home and have it delivered directly to your email. 


Review - History for Little Pilgrims

The following is a homeschool review of "History for Little Pilgrims," published by Christian Liberty Press:

This is a very cute softcover book with 122 pages.  It is suggested for 1st grade students.  The cover illustration is so sweet and I love the artist, Vic Lockman.

This is designed to be a history book to include many Bible stories and also some geography, history of America, and the Church.

Each chapter has easy to understand text which is read by the teacher (or parent). There are pictures, maps, and cartoon- type illustrations.  Most of the illustrations by Vic Lockman are adorable. There are a few that were slightly scary to me, though, and I just wanted to mention that.  There were also a few passages that I would not read to children because they were sad and troubling (such as mention of martyrs).

At the end of each chapter is a section which includes vocabulary words, an activity, and a review where the student needs to write missing words.

Additional Resources

There is a teacher's manual that goes with this.  It is 68 stapled pages and includes lesson plans, questions to ask the student, and definitions of vocabulary words from the lessons.

There is a coloring book which includes larger pictures taken from the workbook.  It is 38 pages.

This post is the fourteenth in a series of reviews I am doing using Christian Liberty Press curriculum.  I hope to do 2 reviews each month as I work with my grandson for Kindergarten. To start with the first post, please see the introduction:

"24 Years of Homeschooling with Christian Liberty Press"

* Disclosure - I received this for review purposes.*

Review - Little Pilgrims in God's World

The following is a homeschool review of "Little Pilgrims in God's World," published by Christian Liberty Press:

This is a softcover workbook designed for Kindergarten students.  It is 156 pages.  It includes photographs and cartoon- type illustrations by Vic Lockman. 

There are 70 lessons including topics such as Selfishness, Bad Government, God's Grace, Working Together, America's Freedom, and many more.

Each lesson begins with a short passage of Scripture.  There is a text for the teacher to read, some questions, and activities.   

There were some illustrations that I think were a little scary and I would not want to show them to my grandchildren.  There was also some wording in the book that I did not think was suitable for small children.  An example includes talking about abortion (even though that term is not directly used.)  I just don't think this is age appropriate, considering this is designed for 5 or 6 year old children.

I had a similar review for the 1st grade version of "History for Little Pilgrims."   

Other Resources

There is a Teacher's Manual which goes along with the workbook.  It is 50 pages long. It includes lesson plans, questions, vocabulary words, activities and instructions. 

There is also an Activity Book that goes with this.  It is 121 pages long.  There is an activity which goes with each lesson in the student workbook. One example is a group of four colorful illustrations and the student is asked to "put an "X" on the picture of someone being selfish." (page 36) There are vocabulary words to study, memory verses, suggestions for further study, and more.

This post is the fifteenth in a series of reviews I am doing using Christian Liberty Press curriculum.  It is the final one in this series.  To start with the first post, please see the introduction:

"24 Years of Homeschooling with Christian Liberty Press"

* Disclosure - I received this for review purposes.*

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