Extreme Thrift

Reading a mail order catalog at home, North Dakota, 1942, LOC.

 When it comes to being careful with money, we consider our work done well if we stay on budget and live within our means.  This is no easy task in the midst of hard times. It is something to be praised.

In our society, we are overwhelmed with ideas of spending, shopping, and buying. Ads and messages are unrelenting and come to us in many different ways.  We are being quietly coerced by displays and ads that we need things right now. We often live in a way that we see happening around us.  This is common. It will take an understanding and a firm conviction to do things in a different way.

Real old-fashioned thrift is considered extreme in these modern days.  Looking back in history we find that families were not exposed to nearly as much adverting as we are today.  For example, in my childhood home, we had a large copy of a Sears catalog. It was kept inside a cabinet in our living room. It was an annual publication, and we had all the time in the world to look through it and think about what we wanted or needed. There were not any ads to say there was a sale or that we had to buy within 24 hours or a week in order to get the markdowns. There was no pressure.  

I don't think my mother ever went to a shopping mall until she was much older. Even then, it would be very rare for her to have gone to such places.  We went to a stand-alone department store, seasonally, for back-to-school clothes-shopping at the end of each summer. There was really no other need to go to such places. We did not buy new things as many are accustomed to doing today.  My father fixed things that were broken and my mother took good care of what they owned. (To this day, I am still using some towels and sheets that belonged to my mother from long years ago.) These days, it is common to buy some new kitchen items (such as hand towels and oven mitts) to cheer up the kitchen and bring new excitement into the home.  In the old days, one would simply keep the kitchen in good order, nice and clean, and serve homemade meals at a carefully set table. This is what brought cheer and comfort to the family.  The purchase of new towels and oven mitts and other lovely things were more commonly given (to homemakers) as gifts for birthdays and Christmas. They were most welcome and much appreciated!

To live quietly and modestly, with as little necessary cost as possible, is a great accomplishment. Studying the old ways of frugality and thrift will bring us wisdom and encouragement.

 Saving money and living carefully is so important, especially when we have trials involving our health.  I was notified this morning that a medical trip at the hospital is scheduled for our patient (one of our sons) next week. As I am preparing for this journey into the next state, I am looking over the finances and making plans for this to be as low cost as possible.  I am thinking about the old days and how families were not battling the marketing industry as we are now. It is hard to keep our bearings and to stand strong and still. If we can just avoid falling for the shopping-bait, we are more likely to have money for emergencies.

Many of us have financial struggles we are enduring.  If we can live cheerfully and peacefully with a bit of extreme-style thrift, it will be much easier to get through the ups and downs of the cost of living.

Blessings

Mrs. White

From the Archives -

Old Fashioned Living - Retirement Planning for the Poor.

Encouraging children to clean -  Nobody wants to Clean a Messy House.

Finding Genuine Happiness at Home - Peace be Upon This House.  

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 -An Old Fashioned Budget: Humble Financial Management for the Christian Housewife. 

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Getting By with Little Money

Using a Wagon to bring home groceries, 1942, LOC.

In the 1940's, residents were encouraged to save resources and find creative ways to avoid the waste of gasoline and other necessary supplies. Money was scarce. Families worked hard to put food on the table and to maintain a place to live.  One of the campaigns that was broadcast was called, "I'll carry mine."   Photos were taken of a variety of children and adults doing their part as they walked home from the grocer holding bags or hauling parcels in little wagons.  They were choosing to walk rather than drive so they wouldn't use any gasoline.

War ration books were issued around this time as well.  A certain portion was rationed to residents, with limited amounts of sugar, butter, and other basic items. Homemakers had to get creative with what was presented as meals for the family. Gardens were prevalent and this helped make sure nourishing food was available, especially in hard times.

 We are facing hard times today. One of my biggest struggles, each month, is to have enough food for my family.  Our bills have increased. Our annual car insurance bill just arrived with a staggering increase of $100. This is a burden when one is having a difficult time just getting by and making do. I have noticed the cost of groceries has increased again. I am already avoiding what I call luxuries (such as hot chocolate, and store-bought treats).  We avoid restaurants and unnecessary spending. There simply isn't enough money on a limited income for such comforts.

We need a good dose of old-time homemaking.  Getting back to basics is essential for survival.  When the most basic living expenses are high, we have to find a way to come up with enough money and resources to simply feed the family. It is the old saying, of putting food on the table. This has become an ongoing challenge these days!

I am inspired by the creative ways homemakers managed their homes in the 1940's.  I am thinking of more ways to live on less so we can come up with money for food:

1. I need to conserve gasoline. I am avoiding going out as much as possible, often putting off necessary shopping for a day when there is an appointment. In this way, I can stop at the store on my way home from an essential errand. Combining crucial trips is important for us to save money on transportation. The less often I need to put gas in the car, the more often I will have a few dollars to buy basic items like sugar, butter, and orange juice.

2. Repairs and maintenance on the house are put off for as long as possible. Some things we have simply learned to live without because money is needed for more basic needs. 

3. Whatever we can fix or mend ourselves, for free, is done in order to make everything last as long as possible. 

4. I am seeking happiness and joy in things that don't require money. This is one of the most important things we can do because life should be happy and pleasant and peaceful. If we are content in our circumstances, finding ways to turn hard things into an adventure, we will keep up our morale and walk ahead to victory!

I realize many people are struggling with health issues as well as enduring financial trials.  We can find peace through it all as we travel on these difficult roads if we remember to have trust and faith in our Heavenly provider.  If we can remember all the blessings and the things for which we are thankful, it is easier to bear the times of going without. 

 Better days are always ahead. In the meantime, we keep up with our daily chores and duties. We keep up with prayers and hymns. We find strength to keep going by staying close in our walk with the Lord.  These daily actions are much like the promise from Matthew 6:33: "But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you."

Blessings

Mrs. White

From the Archives -

Is This True?  - Only Rich People Have Clean Houses.

A Peaceful Work - The Simplicity of Old Fashioned Homemaking.

I will never regret staying Home - A Humble Parlour as a School of Theology.

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Help For Homeschooling:

Seeking a Thrifty and Simple Life: Encouragement for Christian Homeschooling by Mrs. White

Paperback, 112 pages

As you read this book, I hope you get a sense that, no matter what is going on in the world, every home can be a homeschool. 

Making an Apron - Sewing by Hand Video

Sewing supplies at our table.

I had an apron project in mind for quite some time. I had been putting it off for months because the hardest part, for me, is making the effort to lay out the pattern pieces and cut them all out.  A solution was presented to me, one day, by a dear grand-girl who wanted to do it for me.  She was such a great help, and we were able to get the pieces cut and put aside. 

My favorite part of making something is sewing by hand.  Prepping the work is exhausting. But the actual sewing is such a peaceful form of recreation as I sit to sew or mend. 

There was a request for a video to show the process of making an apron by hand. After a very long wait, the video has been finished and is ready to share.

For those who are interested, here is a link to watch:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lS7HB4GQINI&list=PLdjNiA5yPfo46l2_O8L5taQscGSPbfgfX&index=10&t=314s

This is just a very basic introductory video. I hope you find it helpful. 

I will write more soon!

Blessings

Mrs. White

From the Archives -

Peaceful living From the Old Days - Sunday Driver. 

Old Time Manners - Waiting for the Door to Be Opened.  

Living on a Small Income - Standard of Living. 

 

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 "At Mother's House" by Mrs. White:

  

For Encouragement in Homemaking, order Mrs. White's book, from 2016, "At Mother's House: The Blessing of Being a Christian Housewife."

In this book, you will find essays, articles, and diary entries about life in a Christian home.

There are 40 entries which include:  "Poor and Pretty Living;" "A Home Without Clutter;" "The Money Packets;" "A Church Diet for the Family;" "Bringing Home Baby;" "The Children's Prayers;" "The Shabby Garden:" and "Just a Housewife."

Those who are seeking a peaceful home, with the Lord as the foundation, will find encouragement. (Paperback, 122 pages.)

A Rested Heart

Flowers at our table. 

There has been some discouragement and worry in recent days.  We have moods that tend to bring a bit of sadness. As I go about the house, baking, sweeping, and mending, I have to remember to ignore worrisome thoughts.  I have realized that these are the moments when I need to find my rest in a closeness with the dear Lord.  

I must still take care of the family, make the bed, tidy the rooms, and make this a pleasant home.  The emotional swings are unstable and will be healed when we walk through the heavenly gates.  When I remember this, I am greatly cheered.

Yesterday, I was returning from a doctor appointment. I stopped at one of the lakes to take pictures.  The scenery is so quiet and beautiful.  The winter snow is still all around, and the ground is icy in places.  I carefully walked towards the shoreline, before I fell in the snow!  It was cold and difficult, much like the outside world. Yet, in that moment, as I was down, I managed to get a picture.

One of the lakes near our home.

Soon I was walking back towards the car. I heard something beautiful in the wind.  I noticed a church in the distance. It was chiming out an old hymn, "Be Thou My Vision."  I stood still and listened. It brought me an incredible sense of comfort. I was so grateful.

A page from our book, "Hymns for the Home and Family."

I must always remember that no matter what is happening, I must keep doing the daily work. I will do this while looking up. My hope is not in my circumstances. It is in the Lord.

 Remembering the promises from Scripture is so precious:

"Come unto me, all ye that labour and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest." -Matthew 11:28. 

I want that rest. I want that sense of contentment and stability regardless of storms around me. I want a stable heart with the peace of God. As for me, there is no other way to live. This will bring a rested heart.

Blessings

Mrs. White

From the Archives -

Remembering the old ways - The Comfort of a House Coat.

Practical help - How the Old Time Mothers Survived Poverty.

Old time values - The Blessing of Being a Half - Southern Mama.

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"Hymns for the Home and Family: Devotional with 28 Hymns and Christmas Songs"

126 pages, paperback

ISBN: 978-1-956616-33-0

How to Mend Towels

Sewing box on our table.

It is common to go out and buy new things whenever something breaks or is falling apart. We watch for sales and bargains and then buy what we need. This is wise unless there is no money available. In this case, it is important to know how to make do and mend, making repairs (without cost) to the best of our ability.

I have a set of bath towels that I bought many years ago. They are great quality but, as with all things, have worn out over a long period of time. I would love to get new ones but there is not any money available. Since I really need the towels, I only have two options. I could either keep using them as they continue to deteriorate. Or I can mend them and prolong their use.  

This morning, I made a video showing how to repair the towels, by hand-sewing.  If you would like to watch, here is the link:

"Make Do and Mend - Mending Towels (Frugal Homemaking)"

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6iq_iGcKl9Y&list=PLdjNiA5yPfo46l2_O8L5taQscGSPbfgfX&index=8

I hope you find this helpful!

Blessings

Mrs. White

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From the Archives -

The Blessing of  -  The Mother Who Isn't Busy.

Happy and Frugal Kitchen work  - Basic Cookery.

What Many of us Crave - An Ordinary Life at Home.

 

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  For Encouragement in Christian Homemaking, order Mrs. White's book, "Homemaking For Happiness: Wonderful Days at Home."

In this book, you will find essays, articles, and diary entries about life in a Christian home.

Entries are arranged by season, and include:  "Keeping a Frugal Kitchen;" "Missing the Lilacs;" "An Evening Walk in the Garden;" "At Grandmother's House;" and "Chores for Grandchildren."

You will also find a few photographs showing a little of the local landscape.

Paperback, 307 pages.