Tuesday, July 22, 2025

The Missing Joy in Homemaking

Side yard at the Aldrich house, Plymouth Notch, VT. (July 2025)

In the old days, there was much productive work to do in the home. There were gardens and flowers to tend outdoors. Inside, there was sweeping, washing, cooking, baking, and laundry. The work made one tired enough to sleep at night. The family slept with a sense of peace and rest knowing the time had been well spent. 

Before the introduction of convenient food into supermarkets, Mother would make all the meals from scratch. She would bake break, cookies, and cakes. She would make hearty soups and stews. Husband and children would love Mother's home-cooking.  They would help her with the work of harvesting, canning, and preserving food. They would help her set the table and do the dishes. Mother was not entirely worn out because she had helpers with the work. This was how they spent time together and learned the skills of home. This was how the beautiful work of homemaking was passed down through the generations. It used to be considered a life-long calling and a precious vocation to be a homemaker. 

Sadly, there has been a change in the way homes are being managed. This became very clear to me this week. I had been watching a program on DVD. It was a reunion episode of The Waltons. All the children had grown up.  Mother, Olivia, had a job outside the home. The kitchen seemed almost empty compared to earlier days.  I used to love seeing Grandma and Olivia bake break, make all the meals, mend, clean, and iron the clothes.  It was comforting for the family. They presented a common way the family-home used to function. It inspired peace and stability. 

But after Grandma got sick, things seemed to slide on the program. Olivia did not continue on with the work of homemaking from the heart. She seemed discontent and restless.  By the time the children had grown up and the grandchildren started to arrive, we find Olivia going to college to seek a degree. We see her working at a job, teaching school.  Back at home, the kitchen looked like an empty room. I mourned for the example that had been lost of her working alongside the younger mothers (her daughters) as she used to do with Grandma.  Something had slipped in the next generation. Olivia, as the new grandmother, did not keep up with the old ways, as the generations before had always done. 

Towards the end of the television program, we see John sitting at the kitchen table one evening. He and Olivia were having apple pie as they talked. John was happy as he said something like, "I didn't know you had time to make a pie."  She stood up from the table, began to clear the plates and explained that she did not, in fact, make the pie. She had bought one ready-made at the local mercantile. She told him, "Times are changing."  When I heard this, it made me sad. I thought of how we, as God's children, do not change with the times. 

I believe Olivia Walton lost that sense of joy, that sense of an anchor, which is necessary when doing the Lord's precious work. 

This is what is missing in homemaking today.  It is the joy of doing the work, passing it on to our children and grandchildren and continuing it each day, to the best of our ability.  

Please do not get weary in well-doing. There is a rich blessing in taking care of a home and family all the days of our lives. Please do not lose the joy. 

I want to be the grandmother who is always home for grown children and grandchildren. I want to be here for great-grandchildren. I want to be found faithfully keeping house for the family. This is a gift that must be practiced each day so that the skill of old-fashioned homemaking is never forgotten. 

Blessings

Mrs. White

From the Archives -

My Mother's Example - Housekeeping All Day.  

A Blessing to Be - Just a Housewife. (With a little history)

Four Generations in the same house - In Pursuit of Christian Duty.


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For happiness and cheer in the kitchen:

Mrs. White's old fashioned cookbook focuses on serving meals and setting the table in a humble home.


"Serving in the Kitchen: Cookbook with Recipes, Advice, and Encouragement for the Christian Home"

152 pages, paperback.



Monday, July 21, 2025

Summer Update

Morning sunlight through the trees at our house. 

I have been struggling through the summer heat but now things seem to have cooled off. The light rain on the landscape is lovely to see on the green grass. I have been checking on my little gardens and flowers each day on my walks around the property.  

Cluster of tea roses on our front grounds. 

There have been worries and health trials over the last several weeks. In the midst of it all, I have been trying to regain strength and energy to live joyfully each day. I have been watching (or listening) to a sermon most mornings. I take notes because it helps me to concentrate and remember what I am hearing. This has been such a blessing and a great source of peace for me. 

We are doing our best to save money for necessary expenses. I am trying to avoid spending money as much as possible. We had a major house repair cost last week. It was shocking but we are trusting our Heavenly Father to get us through. Remembering the sermons I am constantly listening to helps keep me quieted in heart. 

I wanted to give you a little update on the blog. Sometime ago, I had set up a second channel on YouTube. This one was just for scenes of our peaceful river and local lakes and such that I wanted to share.  I used my main channel for things like sharing how to bake or sew.  I recently took down all the videos on the scenery channel and was going to shut that one down. I also took down my videos on the main channel because I was so tired and wanted a break.   A problem happened when I finally went to delete the scenery channel.  Without my realizing it, the account was connected to my main (sewing and baking) channel I use for the blog. You may have noticed it is missing! I did not intend for this to happen, but now both channels are now permanently deleted.  I was shocked at first, but now at peace.  I will focus on other things. I have another book idea I want to do but am so tired, I will have to wait.

Summer has been lovely here. We have had frequent visits from the grown children and grandchildren. They are my favorite kind of company! 

Today will be a lovely day serving the Lord.  It is an honor to be at home and to trust my Heavenly Father for everything.

Blessings

Mrs. White

From the Archives -

Overcoming Worries and Troubles - Reviving the Prayer Journal

Encouragement - Waiting for the Door to Be Opened.

A Blessing in Hard Times - Peaceful Homemaking

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Help For Homeschooling:

Seeking a Thrifty and Simple Life: Encouragement for Christian Homeschooling by Mrs. White

Paperback, 112 pages

As you read this book, I hope you get a sense that, no matter what is going on in the world, every home can be a homeschool. 

Thursday, July 17, 2025

Remembering Dr John MacArthur

 Brief Biography of Dr. John MacArthur by Iain H. Murray, 2011


Many years ago, my father encouraged me to become a prayer partner for the Grace to You ministry.  I promptly wrote a letter with a request to join.  Each month, a letter from Dr. MacArthur was mailed to me.  I loved reading those letters and looked forward to them each month.  There was always an offer for a free resource, such as a sermon or book. My agreement, as a partner, was to pray for the ministry and the pastor. I cheerfully and gratefully did this every single month for decades. Then I would send away for the offer.  Because of this, I have several sermons on CD and many books.

One year, my brother and his wife sent me a gift of a MacArthur study Bible. It was beautifully bound with our family name engraved on the cover. I was delighted.  In my household, whenever I had a question or wondered about a passage of Scripture, I would say, "let's see what John MacArthur says about this," or I would look up what Matthew Henry (from the 1700's) had to say.  I consulted the two commentaries to help me understand and to find reassurance. 

My father, the son of a revival minister, (and brother of a preacher) was a long-time supporter of Dr. MacArthur. I inherited some of his old cassette tapes.  I will share a picture of one of the tapes. This will help to show you how long the sermon ministry of Grace to You has been a blessing.


Sermon by Dr. John MacArthur, on Cassette tape, from 1981.

I always found Dr. MacArthur's voice and sermons to be comforting and helpful. He was bold in his warnings and often sent a wake-up call to us about what was going on around us. This was incredibly helpful.  When there was a problem, a worry, or a concern, many of us would look to preachers like him for help and reassurance.  There are very few dedicated men of God (in the spotlight) in our times.  He was one of them.

The sermon ministry later modernized to include sermons on CDs. I would often listen to these on a CD player I kept in the kitchen. I would bake and cook and sweep while the sermon was playing. How grateful I was for the privilege of hearing sermons in this way, at any time, instead of just once a week at our local church. 

Commemorative CD of his first sermon at Grace to You Church, 1969. 



I believe many of us are spiritually starved. Yet, there are so many resources to help us along the way. There are lights on our path to heaven, to guide and encourage.  Pastors like John MacArthur are some of those helpers. 

Sermon on CD from 2015. 

In his biography, written in 2011, the richness of John's spiritual heritage is incredible to read. His father and grandfather were faithful servants of the Lord. They were preachers who guided their congregations and their families.  It is instructive to read of the environment in which John was brought up. It is a helpful and inspiring book. 

I am so thankful for the life-work of this servant of God. I am also thankful for his family and church who supported and encouraged him.  Their faithfulness helped John to do his work.   

This very week, Pastor MacArthur has gone home to his eternal reward in Heaven.  While this is a great loss for us here, it is a gain for Heaven. Yet, because of the behind-the-scenes work of so many, his books and sermons will remain, encouraging us for years to come. I am very grateful.


Blessings

Mrs. White

From the Archives -

A Tribute - Remembering Dr. Charles Stanley.

Old Fashioned Living - Retirement Planning for the Poor.

Taking Care of the Family - A Covered Bridge and Graceful Living in Rural Vermont


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Encouragement from the 1800's:  


~ Daily Devotional ~  

"A Year of Blessings and a Blessed Year: The Legacy of Home Press Classic Editionby Rose Porter.

220 pages, paperback. (5 x 8)

A Classic Reprint, brought to you by The Legacy of Home Press.






Wednesday, July 9, 2025

The Parenting Report

Peaceful view at Plymouth Notch, Vermont. (July 2025) 

I have heard the common saying that we must take time to pray. When I was a young mother, I used to hear that reminder and say to myself, "I am praying all day. What are they talking about?" I was always praying and seeking help and guidance. It was not until recently that I really understood the time and sacrifice it takes to literally take time to pray.

I will liken this to what it is like as a parent praying for one's children. I would pray on the bad days, I would pray when a crisis hit, I would pray for help.  These are all good things, but I missed out on something beautiful. It was a daily lifeline of comfort with something I will call "The Parenting Report."

After I have spent the day babysitting grandchildren, I will give a report of the day to their mother. We will go over the plans and solve problems of what to do next time or how to spend the next day. We enjoy talking about each one of the children and making plans based on each of their personalities and abilities. It is a joy to talk to their mother about them since we both love them so much.

This is exactly what I should be doing each evening with my dear Lord. He loves my children and my grandchildren so dearly. But it requires the sacrifice of time (from what I think I would rather be doing).  Sometimes I am so tired, I can barely pray. I know the Lord hears my heart. But when I plan a time of Scripture reading, meditating and finding joy in the beautiful Word of God, and then get on my knees to talk to my Heavenly Father about each one of my children and grandchildren, this will bring abundant blessings. I can ask for help and guidance for each one. I can pray for wisdom and ask for just the right words and actions to help lead them on the precious path of light. This time with God, as a parenting report of each and every day's events, will bring me the right counsel and strength to do the work of mothering and Grand-mothering with the blessing of my dear Lord.

This time with God reminds me of enjoying phone conversations I used to have with my mother. I would ask for advice about my little ones and she would comfort and encourage me. At other times, I used to walk into the living room to seek help from my Father. He would look up from the Bible he had been reading and give me time and attention to help soothe my worries and turn my attention to help from above.  I walked away from these conversations with a grateful and rested heart.

I want to do this with prayer. I need to make time, at the end of each day, to give a parenting report to my Father in Heaven. I will seek his guidance and comfort. I will give him a great deal of my time. I will not hurry or rush to have the prayer over-with. I will make it a beautiful part of my day; the time I will tell my Lord all about my worries and my joys. I will find peace and rest, knowing that I will not have to do any of this on my own. My Father will take care of it all.  . . He will bless the next generation. 

Blessings
Mrs. White

 From the Archives - 

Inspiration from the Mother of D. L. Moody - Poverty in the 1800's.

Learning Thrift from History - Adapting to the High Cost of Living

 Peaceful Living - Simplicity of Old Fashioned Homemaking


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 Help for hard times at home - 

House Keeping in Hard Times: Essays and Encouragement from a Christian Housewife

 Paperback, 180 pages


 As you read the entries, you will get a sense of what it is like as a Christian housewife through the ups and downs of life.  Topics include motherhood, marriage, taking care of children, cleaning, living on a low income, saving money, and building up the family with faith as the foundation.


Thursday, July 3, 2025

Independence Day Retreat

The village store (museum) in Plymouth Notch. 


There is a quiet village in a rural town in Vermont.  Every time I visit this historic place, I feel such a sense of peace and rest. To get there, one must travel down long country roads, past a few covered bridges, and beside stunning mountain views. This special place is called Plymouth Notch. 

I visited this beautiful spot this morning, on my way home from a journey. They are setting up for the 4th of July events.  I walked around the village and into some of the buildings.  There was heavy rain falling, making the scenery look extra lovely. I was grateful for an umbrella.

Schedule of events, posted on the door of the visitor's center.

There is a large dining tent that has been set up near the entrance of the visitor's center.  Catering trucks are parked nearby. 

Parking area at the visitor's center.

There are students walking around, dressed in their best suits and dresses. These are debaters who are getting ready to do their best speaking for a national tournament which is hosted here each year.  Some of the students are practicing inside some of the museum buildings.  We were told, at the visitor's center, that we were welcome to sit in and listen.

A view of the church.

As we walked towards the church, I could see a light in the doorway.  I knew it would be open to visitors. 

Inside the church museum. 

I sat in the back and listened as one of the students was in the front, giving a speech. I was impressed by his poise and skill as a speaker. I believe he was practicing to prepare for the coming debate, which will happen tomorrow afternoon. All the students we saw looked dignified and respectful in their dress-clothes. They were kind and welcoming.

 I was so grateful to have the opportunity to actually sit inside this historic church. I saw hymnals and thought of those in the past who had worshipped here as they listened to ministers preach old-time sermons. 

The one-room schoolhouse.

Just a few steps up the hill brings us to the one-room schoolhouse. There was a light on inside, much to my surprise. The building was open, and we were welcome to enter.  More students were in there getting ready for their debates. It was peaceful to see the old building and the surrounding countryside.

The Independence Day events, which are scheduled for tomorrow, are extra special for the museum since President Calvin Coolidge was born on July 4.

 Some of the Coolidge family will be at the museum to read portions of his speeches. An orchestra will play patriotic songs. The National Guard will lay a wreath (sent by the White House) at the nearby cemetery. The somber events will bring a sense of gratefulness for our country and for those who have worked so hard to serve.  

I was not able to stay for the events but was so happy to see all the activity amidst the beauty of the countryside.

Flowering bushes, in the rain, by the visitor's center.

This place will always be a special retreat for the many visitors who travel here. It is an idyllic village with a great history of old-fashioned families who worked hard to raise their children with incredible dedication and faith in our dear Lord. May we find inspiration in their example. 

Blessings

Mrs. White

P.S. - For more information about Plymouth Notch, with lots of pictures, please see the field trip section of my book, "Seeking a Thrifty and Simple Life."

From the Archives -

Peaceful living From the Old Days - Sunday Driver. 

The example of my Parents - Minding my own Housekeeping Business.

Living on a Small Income - Standard of Living

 

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Help For Homeschooling:

Seeking a Thrifty and Simple Life: Encouragement for Christian Homeschooling by Mrs. White

Paperback, 112 pages

As you read this book, I hope you get a sense that, no matter what is going on in the world, every home can be a homeschool.