Thursday, September 7, 2023

Lack of Money in the Home

Hand painted Milk Can at Mrs. White's home in Vermont.


There is a lack of money in many homes these days. It could be for a variety of reasons such as a health crisis, disability, a natural disaster, the economy, the rising cost of living, or even years of accumulated debt. This is nothing new.

The problem is when the focus is on the money or the lack thereof.  We need to practice the art of making a home and a life using less money.  We can spend our time making things, or laboring in the domestic arts. This is a beautiful way to pass the time without thinking about shopping or how to come up with more money in order to have extra to spend.

 

A hand-sewing project, for quiet leisure moments.

Genuine hard times have been happening for generations. It sometimes happens in cycles.  If we learn as many necessary skills as possible, we are more likely to weather these difficult storms.

There are going to be moments of panic - such as when a car repair bill is higher than expected, or when there is an expensive basic need for the house. Often these expenses take away from accumulated savings and give us a moment of fear.  Then we need to look to our provider, our helper in all troubles. We look to the Lord and we focus on the task at hand. He will take care of us. His thoughts are higher than our thoughts. We may not understand or know what to do, but a solution will come when we patiently wait on the Lord. 

It would be wonderful if we could find serenity in our surroundings and in the beauty of nature around us.  Money cannot buy the peace we feel when we hear birds singing in the morning or when we gaze at the setting sun.

 

Lake view near Mrs. White's home.

When we bought our 1850's house, here in rural Vermont, we found an old milk can on the property. It was hand painted with a charming inscription which says, "Be it ever so humble there's no place like home."  This has been the motto of the ages for generations.  It has been a normal way of life to have limited funds.  The blessing and the riches are the result of a strong foundation in the Lord. We seek peace and find joy as we serve Him.  We do His precious work by taking care of our family. 

Homemade bread at Mrs. White's table.

 

One of the most important skills we can ever learn is to entirely trust the Lord for all of our needs. We need to increase our faith. The Father will give us all we need in order to do the work He has given us. This world is not our permanent home.  We are on the path to an eternal rest. There are mansions being prepared in Heaven.  We will have a great reunion with family and there will be no more worries or tears or fears. After all the struggles in this life, we will walk through the Heavenly gates with the greatest sense of joy we will ever experience. Knowing all this ought to make us the happiest of people. This will bring a great light of peace and rest and contentment into our hearts and lives.  

 

The parlour table at Mrs. White's house.

Many people are struggling today and worrying about how they will get by. Just keep working joyfully in the home, especially when there isn't much money. Homemaking is one of the greatest privileges I have ever known. Just start cleaning, decorating, baking, serving and making home a pleasant place to be. Make home a lighthouse of peace and welcome. It doesn't cost any money to spread happiness. These very acts will help bring joy to all hearts.

Blessings

Mrs. White

From the Archives -

Overcoming trials at Home - Make an Effort

When We Couldn't Take Care of our Property - The Shabby Garden

Reality and Wisdom - Retirement Planning for the Poor.

 

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Find detailed instruction and inspiration in budgeting on a small income, along with a method for keeping a handwritten ledger, in Mrs.White's book:

 -An Old Fashioned Budget: Humble Financial Management for the Christian Housewife

 Paperback, 77 pages.

 

 

14 comments:

Lori Ann said...

Good morning Mrs.White! I was just re-reading one of your books last night. I’m glad you’re still doing well.

Anonymous said...

Beautiful and wise words Mrs. White. May God richly bless you in all your needs, as you lean on Him.

Martha Jane Orlando said...

Trusting in God's provision is the best way to live our lives, knowing that He is faithful and will keep His promises. We should live each day with that conviction and the hope and joy it brings to us all.
Blessings, Mrs. White!

Diane said...

Good morning, Mrs. White! I am new to your blog but am very grateful for your encouraging words to live contented, resourceful lives. I am still amazed when I practice life this way how God enables us to share graciously and generously. I pray for you and your family as you continue to faithfully serve. May you be blessed and God be glorified!
-Diane

Lana said...

So many times the Lord has provided in a miraculous way for us. We needed a chair lift in our stairs to keep living in our two story house. The cost was $11,000. We paid for it out of our savings and somehow the money was restored. I have no explanation but it has happened more than once. Six years ago our income went to half and I cannot explain how we seem to have more money now than we did before. I have learned that when God prompts us to give to do so joyfully and quickly. He always opens the windows of heaven and pours out a blessing that we can hardly comprehend. He is our good, good Father!

Marilyn said...

I so love your letters . They are encouraging and bolster what I believe. Hard to find it these days with so many obsessed with money.

Billie Jo said...

Mrs. White, this is so beautifully written. You write such wise words, and I am so thankful to know you here! Thank you for validating my love of home and family. Have a cozy evening!

SIRVIENDO AL SEÑOR said...

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Amelia said...

Beautifully written from the heart Mrs. White. It's so true, we can make our homes a sweet sanctuary unto the Lord, a sweet insulated refuge from the world. And yes, we can make things to make it pretty, just from things around our home! : ) I love the painted milk can with the deer on it...How sweet!

So nice to read here this evening! ~Amelia

Wanda said...

You truly exhibit the Proverbs 31 women in so many wonderful ways. How blessed we are to have a Heavenly Father that knows our needs before we ask. So many times we have seen the Lord give us a miracle at the moment we needed it. Other times, it didn't come when we needed it, and we learned to trust.

Your blog reminds me of the important things in life that money cannot buy.

Homemade bread, the smell of a candle, the breeze that moves the curtains and reminds us who is in charge of the wind!

Thanks again for sharing your heart and home. Such inspiration and encouragement makes coming here priceless. Love and Hugs

Teri said...

Dear Mrs. White ... “Use it up, wear it out, make it do, or do without” comes to mind as I pondered your posting. God is in control and He has a plan. We need to keep our faith and have patience as we tend to our homes and our family. He will see us through. Thank you for sharing. Hugs, Teri

Debbie said...

The Lord can use all things and one thing I would love to see out of this economic downturn is women spending more time focused on home.
We've gotten so used to shopping at the touch of a button or out doing things that cost money. Some young moms feel they are trapped if they have to actually stay home with the kids.

Maybe the Lord will use all of these things for the good of society. Our hearts need to be turned back to the simple things, such as people, home, serving others and Him.

As always, your posts reflect what a beautiful homemaker you are :)

Blessings, Mrs. White

Christine Smith said...

Hello again Mrs White,
It’s been too long since I last visited your peaceful place here in blog land, but I have picked a wonderful day to do it. To see your cozy home again and find comfort in your wise words is such a blessing, and I thank you. It’s so very easy to become discouraged when we go through the “lean” times, but as you say, these cycles come and go as does so many things in life.
I appreciate your wisdom more than you know.
God bless you,
Christine

Lady Locust said...

I love and appreciate the reminders of faith. This is especially nice: "serenity in our surroundings and in the beauty of nature around us."
Blessings~