Thursday, July 6, 2023

Days Without Spending Money

View of our playground at Mrs. White's Home in Vermont. (There is a tiny bird nest on one of the little trees.)


On the television program, "The Waltons," the family rarely has any money.  They spend most of their time at home taking care of the family and the homestead.  The time period is set during The Great Depression so it is not uncommon for there to be little money available. We see them often making do with what they have and going without, waiting for better days.  This is a helpful lesson for hard times. In these modern days, learning to be content and frugal with one's resources is essential.

To practice frugality and contentment is to be productive with our time. We need to be at peace.  There is going to be a fight in one's mind to avoid the common practice of daily spending.  There are always going to be things we want or need.  It is too easy to get online and do the family shopping.  It is too easy to get in one's car and drive to the store to pick up a few things.  Many years ago, it was not so simple.  There was a time when there were no cars. There were only horses and buggies.  It was more of an ordeal to get ready to go to the market. It was not a frequent event.  

The little stores and shops, especially in rural areas, did not have a variety of merchandise like we have today.  There were less things to want. There were fewer things to dream about buying.  There is a sense of contentment when one doesn't know what one is missing out on. 

These days, our utility bills are rising. We have had two price increases in the last couple of months here at our house.  We are also waiting to hear from our mechanic about a car repair that is expected to be hundreds of dollars.  We must save as much money as we can all year round to pay for these normal expenses in life. We must not spend our savings. We need it for bill money!

These bills add up and can overtake a simple budget. We have to cut back. Money for basic expenses has to come from somewhere. Often it ends up being taken from the grocery budget.  This is where we have to work very hard to keep costs down. We have to manage the kitchen in the best possible way by avoiding waste. We have to stop the frivolity of buying luxury food that is overpriced and unhealthy. We must learn to find our treats in good times rather than in expensive snacks.  

One way to have good times is to enjoy nature as we walk and observe the scenery. It is to appreciate the beauty of home and the simple fun which comes from being with family and enjoying old time activities.

This past week we noticed there were some bird nests on some of our trees.  As we walk the grounds of our humble estate, here in Vermont, we hear the rushing of the river which borders our property. We listen to the singing of the birds.  We pause to look at wild flowers, the progress of our blueberry and strawberry gardens, and the little trees all around us.  The tiny bird nests are such a delight to see.

 

A little bird nest at Mrs. White's property, with a view of our playground.


We find happiness in doing things and in making things at home.  These are ways of making good use of time that do not cost money.  We find peace and serenity in a simple way of life. Yet we will continue to struggle with those frequent thoughts of needing to buy something.  This can be remedied by remembering that nothing comes in an instant. All things take time.  We do not need to shop or spend today. We must learn to wait. We can go days without using money.  This is a peaceful and economical way to live. We trust our Heavenly Father for our daily portion. He will provide in His timing. He is able to give us wonderful treats and happy times as well.  We must simply pray and then wait.  This daily practice will help us to become stronger in living by faith. It will lead to being blessed above all we can ever ask or think. 

Blessings

Mrs. White

From the Archives -

Ideas to minimize stress - Peace be Upon this House.

Unwanted Advice for the Family - Quieting Myself for the Good of Others

When We Couldn't Take Care of our Property - The Shabby Garden.  

Precious Faith and Blessings! - All of God's Children Have Shoes.


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14 comments:

Lori Ann said...

Wishing you a lovely summer Mrs White!

Glenda said...

Dear Mrs. White,
Your posts are so refreshing and pertinent for these times. Thank you.

Anonymous said...

So true.... and remembering one doesn't have to stay home to enjoy this! I keep in my trunk some folding chairs, a folding wagon, etc.. when the kids and I go out to the library, grocery shopping, etc... I use the time wisely and the kids and I go on explores! Local parks, springs, beaches, playgrounds, etc! And if I think our explore might last a little while, I pack a couple jelly sandwiches, chips... and we're good to go!

A wonderful way to have fun. Enjoy God's awesome creation. Teach the children the ability to be flexible, and so much more.... and doesn't cost a dime! Plus, it's fun to go on adventures, not really knowing where God will lead us that day!

And, we usually do our errands/adventures in the morning... still home in time to enjoy the day, make supper, do chores, etc...

Mrs. Laura Lane said...

This is a wonderful reminder Mrs. White. I am enjoying a day at home. Though not feeling my best, I am alternating my up and doing times with my sit and stitching or writing times. I am listening to the Book of Isaiah as I work. There are things that we need and want at the store, but for today, I am going to make due with what I have on hand. It's amazing how long you can avoid the grocery store if you are willing to eat a few unusual meals!

Be blessed my long-distance friend,
Laura of Harvest Lane Cottage

Suzette said...

This is Providential. Thank you so much for spelling this out and giving this encouragement. God bless you.

Billie Jo said...

Hello, Mrs. White. Thank you for this post. It is something I need to remember, as like you say, it is so very easy to spend money. One just has to log onto a computer, and anything wished for can be here in a day or two. I am trying to be more intentional, and your words are helpful. Have a cozy day!

Marilyn said...

I love these visits from you Mrs. White. Always a timely subject too. I have to make a priority list when it comes to spending money. My kitchen floor is a sight. But so is my living room carpet. I can't really afford to replace either and I know our homeowners policy is going up again here in Florida. Then I think, what good is new flooring as we are just into the hurricane season and it might all be destroyed anyway. Trust in the lord to provide and protect is the best advise for anyone.

Wanda said...

You are the proof in the pudding that a simple life style can be rich and fulfilling. I'm working more and more on it, as it's so easy to run out for an item that is not needed, but wanted.

I love hearing bout your family, your walks, the sound of a river close by and hearing and seeing the birds and new nests.

Thanks for bringing us back to reality and what can be with a little planning and thought. Giving thanks for what we have and not longing for more.

Thanks again Mrs. White for your wisdom and willing to share it.

Debbie said...

Hello Mrs. White,
This post speaks of something I'm having to learn all over again. As a young couple, of course we had very little money. I was content to be at home with my babies and take care of the everyday life. As the kids got older, it was harder to maintain that quiet life and things got more expensive. However, since my husband's job loss in February, we have had to go back to paying very close attention to what we spend and you know...it's a nice change! This world can be such a rat race, especially with all the ads on social media. You can be enticed in the very comfort of your own home. But when you need money to pay the bills and you only have a set amount, you quickly figure out what you need and what you only think you need. I'm finding that I enjoy quiet days at home and on those day when I've spent no money, I feel very accomplished.

Have a wonderful weekend!

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Rain San Martin said...

This message of frugal living can never be stated too often. Todays consumerist society urgently needs this discipline!

Teri said...

Dear Mrs. White

So very true, all that you have shared in this post on living frugally. I want you to know how much I am enjoying your book 'Homemaking for Happiness' .. a wonderful book. I am just beginning the Summer Chapter. Thank you for the inspiration that you share here and in your the books that you have written.

Weekend Blessings, Teri

Pam Richardson said...

Mrs. White, thank you for sharing how you live frugally and with contentment. Your posts are inspirational. Enjoy the summer!

The Joy of Home with Martha Ellen said...

Mrs. White, your words of wisdom are so well written. Life should not be about spending, but enjoying the life we are given. Happy Weekend!